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My Spiritual Beliefs- What would you clasify me as?/Personal Belief Thread

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Statement of Beliefs
As at 17 the January, 2009.

Firstly, this is a serious thread, despite the expectation of ludicrous responses, I made it in the hope that at LEAST one worth while response will be elicited (BE that person!)

Notes to the forum-

I’m just at a point where I’m trying to determine my philosophical/spiritual approach to life. I accept that it’s ever evolving, and will never be complete. I’m the analytical type- I read into everything. In my model of reality, I’ve grown to a point where I accept that everyone holds their own beliefs and operates from the most positive driven approach they can with that belief-set. My official ‘religion’ is Catholic, not that my family actively practices. Basically, I got bored and tried to ‘write-down’ what I believe so far. This is actually extremely difficult (those who have tried it should know) and I accept there are direct flaws/wholes in my reasoning, but oh well.

On that, please do not post ‘rebuttal’ to the philosophical positions I state here- the purpose of this thread is not to debate. After all, if you read my first belief- there is no point challenging my beliefs anyway (at least not directly).

*Definitions- According to my reality-

Belief- An assumed truth, mental acceptance of an entity’s validity; actuality.

Religion-I have conceptual issues with the word ‘religion’ in itself; people often use the word to define their beliefs, yet it is their beliefs that actually define their religion. Religion to me basically means an institution which collectively promotes and engages in the practice of certain beliefs through the grouping of like-minded individuals.

My Beliefs-

1) THE MAP IS NOT THE TERRITORY. Everyone operates from a unique position, with a different model of reality. Hence directly challenging someone’s beliefs is a useless waste of energy. That person CAN be exposed to new beliefs and their beliefs can be changed, but it has to be an active choice by the person.
2) ‘Truth’ is in itself flawed- it is simply a neurological function of our perception. The foundation of a belief. In my opinion, truth is inherently paradoxical as it is a relative concept amongst individuals yet this fact in itself must be accepted as absolute for it to have any validity.
3) Knowledge for me is the key to growth. Power, being the ability to influence, is effectively knowledge in the ‘information age’. In the times of early humans- power came through brute strength, the in the monarchy times it came through heritage, then capital (Industrial age). Those with great power head religious organizations- i.e. The Pope is viewed amongst those of Catholic affiliation as having the most information on God and as a result holds an infinitely powerful position.
4) I do not deny the existence of a higher power- but due to my belief on knowledge, I actively decide to not follow a hierarchal ‘religion’ where there are more ‘powerful’ MEN then myself. I believe that on Earth I am the highest power, as essentially I am my ‘mind’- I am the only one in control of the amount of knowledge I have or the decisions I wish to make.
5) I think in summary, we all seek ‘enlightenment’- any form of spirituality could be summarized into “Who are you?” My understanding as so far on that question stops here. I am me. That’s as elemental as I can determine.
6) I choose to belief there has to be SOMETHING after we die, despite no scientific evidence documenting such existence. For what reasons? Optimism? Security? These are benefits and economically there is no cost in believing (unless you’re a scientologist!), so simple cost-benefit analysis here. The only false argument I see for believing in an after-life is “I can’t comprehend nothingness, the incomprehensible”. This is paradoxical as this paints the after-life as the polar opposite of nothingness (which may not be the case) and relatively the ‘after-life’ is just as incomprehensible as nothingness.
7) I am highly scientific- I feel the Big Bang Theory is plausible for the explanation of the physical evolution of the universe and so is Darwin’s for the physical/emotional evolution of living organisms. That however does not mean I attribute them to the ABSOLUTE explanation of existence. A higher power could have caused that singularity to explode etc or perhaps ‘God’ is equal to all the energy in the universe. Since matter=energy this would actually be consistent with Christian philosophy that Jesus/God is within all of us.
8) Prayer is just an affirmation. Affirmations are powerful. Everything we feel is a result of our internal representations of outside stimuli. When outside stimuli match-up with our internal representations it gives us the feeling of security/happiness. Through affirmations, we can change our beliefs so that we operate with a more ‘open’ map. The more expanded your ‘map’ is; the more outside stimuli will match up and the more you will achieve positive results.
9) We hence control all of our emotions. The reality that our sensory modalities produce is what our mind allows it to produce. Most people are just not CONSCIOUS of this and often blame many external forces for how they are feeling.
10) I’m quite Nihilistic. I don’t believe we have any objective ‘path’ or existence. And even if I was wrong and a higher power does give us a path, they allow us enough freedom to question it regularly and ultimately ‘shape’ it ourselves. In fact, the belief that a higher power exists does not actually pre-suppose that that power ‘cares’ at all for us. In any probability, that power could hate us or ‘punish’ us anyway, despite living what we believed to be a ‘moral’ life. Morality is not absolute. How can we guarantee that the higher power is not ‘cruel’ by our relative standard of ‘cruelty’? Additionally, I believe we decide to create our ‘path’ for ourselves and environmental factors play a huge role, especially in religion. A large percentage of the population are religious because they were born into that environment. An Islamic person could tell you that he would NEVER be Jewish, but that is his belief that he has created based on his current reality of being Islamic. These ‘cause and effect’ problems arise constantly, as once a person has been raised with a certain belief they can not think ‘before’ they had that belief. If the Islamic man had been born in an Israeli family, I think the outcome would have been highly different.
11) Much of the reality I see is Impermeable. Constant flux, things ceasing to exist and then not-ceasing to exist. I accept this for my current life in this moment, but I can’t deny that on a macro level the universe or the ‘after-life’ could be ‘absolute’ and fixed.
12) Holding no ‘belief’ based on my definition of belief is impossible. Even atheism is a belief- as it is a reality about spirituality that these people hold true.
13) Since I choose to guide my own life, I seek self-actualization constantly. I believe firmly in the power of goal setting. Not achieving what I seek is ultimately my own fault.
14) I don’t believe in pure altruism.
15) Ultimately, there is no correct spiritual belief (how could this be judged). They all have their value, and I find many concepts across a wide range of ‘religions’ appealing. Anything which empowers a person into growth is beneficial. The only limitation is when people develop ‘limited’ maps of reality and attempt to push theirs on others, causing conflict.


Some ethical positions-

We are biological machines with an insatiable desire to mate. Sex should occur when both people seek it. Attraction is not a choice. I do not believe inherently in “sins” or “sex” as an act of evil/temptation. Hence in my view, sex before marriage is perfectively acceptable between two willing parties. Contraception is perfectly acceptable. Abortion should be utilized carefully and restricted, but it is acceptable when the sex was not between two willing parties (i.e. rape) or the future birth of the child would not be cumulatively beneficial to the child or the parents- mainly due to them being too young, financial reasons, substance abuse, and risk of illness for child etc.

And of course, we are all intrinsically of equal value- hence the colour of a person’s skin/sexual orientation does not concern me at all. It does not affect the path I choose. There are DIFFERENCES though in people’s ‘relative’ social value- that is why some humans are more attractive as potential mate’s then others.

Edit- *Forgot to add in, I'm against the death penalty.

Also, this is becoming an expression of more 'personal spirituality' amongst the replies. There are already many threads pertaining to organised religion. A member of any organised religion is more then welcome to post, yet I am saying this here as my goal is not to create a debate or argument of any kind. I'm not looking for an 'Organised V Personal' debate. That said, anyone posting their personal beliefs should take into consideration the map of people who follow organised religion. I'm sure with the appropriate respect (see my first belief) we can have a SUCCESSFUL discussion without anyone feeling offended or emotionally reacting. Of course, anyone with intelligence will also ignore the numerous troll posts that will inevtiably appear time-to-time in order to stir conflict. IGNORE THEM.

 
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thats a great way of thinking about things...i can really relate to what you said there and i admire your conviction

i'd probably classify you as someone who is at peace with themself, because you seem to have a comprehensive understanding and acceptance of other beleifs and ideas and yet you havent judged anyone or anything.

one question though.....did that come out of your own head or is it based on something you read etc?
 
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alexmartinek said:
thats a great way of thinking about things...i can really relate to what you said there

one question though.....did that come out of your own head or is it based on something you read etc?
I'd say thanks, but I'm not seeking validation of them. But is great that you share similar thoughts...

I wrote them out personally this afternoon, off the top of my head. Of course, the ideas would have to have origins in readings/experiences I have had in the past, but they are essentially my own personal interpretation of the world. :)
 

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dont worry, i can see you arent looking for validation.

sounds like you have a real sense of direction and understanding in life....thats pretty rare you know.

i dont belong to any particular religion, i think having a broad acceptance allows you to interpret the world better

how old are you surfernerd?
 
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alexmartinek said:
dont worry, i can see you arent looking for validation.

sounds like you have a real sense of direction and understanding in life....thats pretty rare you know.

i dont belong to any particular religion, i think having a broad acceptance allows you to interpret the world better
Thanks for the kind reply. I like to think that I'm focused, yet I love the learning curve- I know that there is yet so much more to understand as well and that excites me everyday. But yes, having a broad acceptance of others has truly made my life happier (I use to have what i refered to as a 'limited map' when I was younger)

You also sound like your on a great path, all the best :)
 

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georgefren said:
humanistic?
Definitely elements of it, yes.

Thanks for the reply.

Maybe share some of your beliefs or how you related if you have the time :)
 

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thanks, i hope im on a great path

have you ever felt pressured by religion?

i attend a christian school where the atmostphere is really great, yet i tend to feel constricted in my beleifs due to being friends with many strong beleivers, who have made their mind up to be 'christian.'

i guess im still searching but id prefer to not get caught up and focused on one particular thing. (if that makes sense)
 

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alexmartinek said:
thanks, i hope im on a great path
alexmartinek said:

have you ever felt pressured by religion?

i attend a Christian school where the atmosphere is really great, yet i tend to feel constricted in my beliefs due to being friends with many strong believers, who have made their mind up to be 'Christian.'

i guess im still searching but id prefer to not get caught up and focused on one particular thing. (if that makes sense)


Yes i really do understand how you feel. Im 19 btw. At uni, many of my friends are 'devout' Christians. Whilst i respect their map, I’m not ‘perfect’ by their relative standards (surprisingly, nor are they!) and at times it can be frustrating when they pass 'judgments' on how you acted in a situation or what you should have done. One of my huge criticisms of 'organised religion' is the pressure they place of the individual to 'conform'- that's why I focus much more on personal spirituality. Best advice, allow them to operate with the resources they have and just enjoy having your UNIQUE view on life. As you pointed out, it's advantageous to be broad minded and it’s only a waste of your energy to directly challenge what they believe. That does not mean you can’t open up their reality, but this is difficult and its best just to let them be. Perhaps through observations of your happiness, they could question their beliefs (on their own), but one thing I do is never set out to change anyone- there really is no point. After all, it would be contradictory to my beliefs if I was to think my 'path' was greater then theirs anyway.

I think even devout people continue to search for the rest of their life, thats essentially what we do when trying to find out the answer to "Who are we?"
 
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i'd agree with georgefren. as i was reading i was thinking of humanism.

i really like your point of view on life, i dislike organised religion intensely, so people who make their own minds up about what they believe, life, the meaning of it, how they should live it, etc really have my respect =]].
 

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mmm exactly, sometimes people say to me: "i hope you find jesus christ" and its hard for me to interpret what they mean, because clearly they have a reliance on this person that existed and beleive that this is the supposed "key to eternal life."

its kinda funny actually (not to take away from the seriousness of this thread or anything) but i made a corset for my art project last year and used it as a symbol for how we are all constricted by religion.....it turned out to be really controversial, and i couldnt really understand why.....because ultimately thats what religion is; a restriction on what you can and cant do as well as what you can and cant control.
 

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hermand said:
i'd agree with georgefren. as i was reading i was thinking of humanism.

i really like your point of view on life, i dislike organised religion intensely, so people who make their own minds up about what they believe, life, the meaning of it, how they should live it, etc really have my respect =]].
I respect people such as yourself who find value in such qualities. :)

Thank you for the kind reply. May your dreams of today become your realities of tomorrow.
 

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alexmartinek said:
mmm exactly, sometimes people say to me: "i hope you find jesus christ" and its hard for me to interpret what they mean, because clearly they have a reliance on this person that existed and beleive that this is the supposed "key to eternal life."

its kinda funny actually (not to take away from the seriousness of this thread or anything) but i made a corset for my art project last year and used it as a symbol for how we are all constricted by religion.....it turned out to be really controversial, and i couldnt really understand why.....because ultimately thats what religion is; a restriction on what you can and cant do as well as what you can and cant control.
i completely agree. and i like your metaphor. it's so true!
 

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alexmartinek said:
mmm exactly, sometimes people say to me: "i hope you find jesus christ" and its hard for me to interpret what they mean, because clearly they have a reliance on this person that existed and beleive that this is the supposed "key to eternal life."
alexmartinek said:

its kinda funny actually (not to take away from the seriousness of this thread or anything) but i made a corset for my art project last year and used it as a symbol for how we are all constricted by religion.....it turned out to be really controversial, and i couldnt really understand why.....because ultimately thats what religion is; a restriction on what you can and cant do as well as what you can and cant control.


As i pointed out above, everything we hear is only attributed meaning through HOW we decide to attribute meaning to it- through our internal representational system (which has been developed through our experiences, the web of associations we have given to words as we grew up and learned and some evolutionary desires). It's your choice to decide whether Christ is the entity you wish to give all power to. After all, these people mean well- they are in simplification wishing you the "best" or hoping that you "find enlightenment". This, is a state you can generate purely within your self if you wish to do so.

I enjoyed your story, but remember belief is only as constricting as people wish to make it. I think I said it my OP, if it leads to the empowering of a person and a better life for them, then no matter what religion or personal belief system they adhere to- it's the right one for them. It's when conflict arises through a perception of having the greater "map" that large scale organization can have problems- i.e. The Crusades lol.
 

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A load of wanky postmodern rubbish with no real depth.
You pick and choose beliefs like it's a candy store, with no real substance or understanding behind your reasons. You claim you're a nihiliist, but then post a bunch of rubbish you supposedly also believe in that is contrary to nihilism.

You understand nothing.
Go read a book.
 

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#2 Religions that their parents don’t belong to � Stuff White People Like

White people will often say they are “spiritual” but not religious. Which usually means that they will believe any religion that doesn’t involve Jesus.

Popular choices include Buddhism, Hinduism, Kabbalah and, to a lesser extent, Scientology. A few even dip into Islam, but it’s much more rare since you have to give stuff up and actually go to Mosque.

Mostly they are into religion that fits really well into their homes or wardrobe and doesn’t require them to do very much.
sums it up
 

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Hi guys, I'm 'quite nihilistic', but I also believe there is an 'ABSOLUTE explanation of existence', 'all spiritual beliefs have their value', 'there has to be SOMETHING after we die, despite no scientific evidence documenting such existence', 'There are DIFFERENCES in people’s ‘relative’ social value' etc...


Basically, I'm a moron.
 

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