Am i turning into a "carrie bradshaw"?

Being single and drinking...

being sinlgle and drunk. not a good combination. watching from across the table, your best friend and her man flirting and kissing. and for us 'single ladies' that can take a toll on our emotions. why are we still single? and to what extent must we remain silent about our desires? drinking is socially acepted in today's society, but how can drinking be an accepted behaviour in times of emotional needs? we can lose control of ourselves and we tend to do stupid things and for some of us we think we know it all and know what we're doing... this is where the role of a man comes in handy.

• the supporter.
• the protector.
• and that istant urge to care for us.

thats what we drunk singles need to save us from ourselves. that man that would stop us from drinking when we get tipsy. the man that will listen to all the dumb things that you have to say and understand it. a man who would carry you to your bed when you can't walk. and ONE man who would stay with you all night just to fetch you glasses of water throughout the night of endless puking.

that my friends is what a sinlge drunk woman needs. she needs to be controlled...

but how can we sit here in desperation? can all we do is be drunken and single? and is that why so many guys are turned off when the first sight of a girl is 'drunk'? i'm not reffering to the one-nighters of the male population, but rather more those who have a personality and seek a woman for her charm and personality rather than what's between her legs. there are men out there like this. of course they will have sex on their minds but they don't act upon it. rather more a mutual respect for women. so where are these men when we're tipsy? and why do we drink out of desperation for these men?

in today's society, we single drinking women take the depressent over getting up off our arses and putting our personalities out there and taking the plundge to finding a compatable mate. why do we hold back?