Staying a virgin until marriage (guys)

[kfnmpah]

the irony in that is that most of the time, these pure girls arnt the ones that go after sought after guys.

I don't know if that is technically irony, but I suppose these days anything and everything that happens that shouldn't is called ironic.

I disagree. I don't think girls want boys that have slept with lots of other girls. I'd be severely put off if my boyfriend had like >20 sexual partners purely because I'd question how he would have treated the situation. Would it have been respectful or would it have been the type of situation where he'd brag about to his mates and never talk to the girl again? I wouldn't want to be the girlfriend of someone who had treated that many girls that way, nomsayin.

I'm no dirty bra burner, but I'd rather be with someone who's always been respectful to women than someone who is "sought after"

[anne1010]

nah thats exactly what im saying. sought after guys are usually the ones that go out to the clubs, nail a chick and then never speak to her again. pure girls dont want someone that bangs every 3rd girl. usually its the gangas that go for the "sought after" type and i think thats where the irony stands. actually not really irony, just a wrong statement. pure girls dont want a man whore.

[Shadowdude]

I remember when one of my friends posted on Facebook that she was jealous that her friends had gone through multiple boyfriends in two years while she had been single all that time and she wondered what she was doing wrong. (The girl in question used to work at Hooters, btw)

So anyway, after a few comments one of her friends was like: "id rather have hook ups and flings over nothing... you can do that in the mean time until you stumble over your prince " and I'm sitting there reading that going 'Really? ... Really?'

So I put on my writing cap and I reply:

"I love how the above comment assumes that somehow after a life of many hook-ups and flings, or as I like to call it, using oneself as a tool for male sexual gratification, a self-respecting (and for the purposes of this, let's say... wealthy) man will suddenly overlook the fact that they've basically slept with 984735689476892462 guys and take her and love her for who she is and go on with their merry lives and live happily ever after.

/sarcasm?"


That's what I thought of when I read this thread.

[SpoonSamba]

Sex is part of being in a relationship, its part of knowing someone completely. The idea of marrying someone you havent slept with just seems completely idiotic to me.

[Shadowdude]

Sex is part of being in a relationship, its part of knowing someone completely. The idea of marrying someone you havent slept with just seems completely idiotic to me.

Nowadays, sure. Back a few decades ago... preposterous.

[Phoenix Fury]

I remember when one of my friends posted on Facebook that she was jealous that her friends had gone through multiple boyfriends in two years while she had been single all that time and she wondered what she was doing wrong. (The girl in question used to work at Hooters, btw)

So anyway, after a few comments one of her friends was like: "id rather have hook ups and flings over nothing... you can do that in the mean time until you stumble over your prince " and I'm sitting there reading that going 'Really? ... Really?'

So I put on my writing cap and I reply:

"I love how the above comment assumes that somehow after a life of many hook-ups and flings, or as I like to call it, using oneself as a tool for male sexual gratification, a self-respecting (and for the purposes of this, let's say... wealthy) man will suddenly overlook the fact that they've basically slept with 984735689476892462 guys and take her and love her for who she is and go on with their merry lives and live happily ever after.

/sarcasm?"


That's what I thought of when I read this thread.

Because females dont get sexual gratification too?

[Squishxmishyx]

Do whatever that makes you proud/feel good.

I'm scared of penis. Virgin4lyfe. That makes me feel good.

[anne1010]

I remember when one of my friends posted on Facebook that she was jealous that her friends had gone through multiple boyfriends in two years while she had been single all that time and she wondered what she was doing wrong. (The girl in question used to work at Hooters, btw)

So anyway, after a few comments one of her friends was like: "id rather have hook ups and flings over nothing... you can do that in the mean time until you stumble over your prince " and I'm sitting there reading that going 'Really? ... Really?'

So I put on my writing cap and I reply:

"I love how the above comment assumes that somehow after a life of many hook-ups and flings, or as I like to call it, using oneself as a tool for male sexual gratification, a self-respecting (and for the purposes of this, let's say... wealthy) man will suddenly overlook the fact that they've basically slept with 984735689476892462 guys and take her and love her for who she is and go on with their merry lives and live happily ever after.

/sarcasm?"


That's what I thought of when I read this thread.

thats where i think its fine to sleep as many people as you like, as long as when you get married youll be fine if your partner has slept with that many people. you cant be a slut during your youth and hope to end up with a good boy. it just doesn't work like that imo but everyones diff.

Nowadays, sure. Back a few decades ago... preposterous.

thats because courting days were a fraction of what they are these days. people are in relationships for years while people were only together for months even weeks.

[Shadowdude]

Because females dont get sexual gratification too?

I was implying that in a random hook-up or fling, the guy would basically use the girl for his sexual pleasure and the girl would receive... less.

thats where i think its fine to sleep as many people as you like, as long as when you get married youll be fine if your partner has slept with that many people. you cant be a slut during your youth and hope to end up with a good boy. it just doesn't work like that imo but everyones diff.

thats because courting days were a fraction of what they are these days. people are in relationships for years while people were only together for months even weeks.

1. "you cant be a slut during your youth and hope to end up with a good boy." exactly. The girl who posted that still hasn't replied to my original retort... maybe she's too busy wallowing in self-pity going "OMG WHAT HE SAID IS TRUE!!! I'LL NEVER END UP WITH A RESPECTABLE MAN NOW *cry cry cry*"
2. Were they? I'm not so sure.

[Phoenix Fury]

I was implying that in a random hook-up or fling, the guy would basically use the girl for his sexual pleasure and the girl would receive... less.

Hmm yeh maybe in some cases, but in others the girl (or both parties) would be just using the other, and if all they were after was a bit of fun then ~whateva~

[Shadowdude]

Hmm yeh maybe in some cases, but in others the girl (or both parties) would be just using the other, and if all they were after was a bit of fun then ~whateva~

True, true. But of course, this is just conjecture and purely theoretical thought... it's not like I can talk from experience. But yeah, I suppose the girl could use the guy if the girl was really hot and the guy was just shell-shocked it even happened and he's still in la-la-land. Yeah.

[Dr_Fresh]

"staying virgin until some girl finally agrees to sleep with u" OR "staying virgin until you save enough money to pay for a hooker" wouldve been a much better title imo

[kfnmpah]

Sex is part of being in a relationship, its part of knowing someone completely. The idea of marrying someone you havent slept with just seems completely idiotic to me.

Word. Repped.

[onur91]

OP - For when it happens:

[s2 SEductive]

op - for when it happens:

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[jumb]

OP - For when it happens:

That film clip/song is amazing. Has some random cameos.

[pony_magician]

The fact that whether your partner is a virgin or not should be secondary to the billions of other factors that make for a successful relationship/marriage whatever.

[zombie omie jay]

nah thats exactly what im saying. sought after guys are usually the ones that go out to the clubs, nail a chick and then never speak to her again. pure girls dont want someone that bangs every 3rd girl. usually its the gangas that go for the "sought after" type and i think thats where the irony stands. actually not really irony, just a wrong statement. pure girls dont want a man whore.

thats not what irony means

is what she was saying

[zombie omie jay]

I remember when one of my friends posted on Facebook that she was jealous that her friends had gone through multiple boyfriends in two years while she had been single all that time and she wondered what she was doing wrong. (The girl in question used to work at Hooters, btw)

So anyway, after a few comments one of her friends was like: "id rather have hook ups and flings over nothing... you can do that in the mean time until you stumble over your prince " and I'm sitting there reading that going 'Really? ... Really?'

So I put on my writing cap and I reply:

"I love how the above comment assumes that somehow after a life of many hook-ups and flings, or as I like to call it, using oneself as a tool for male sexual gratification, a self-respecting (and for the purposes of this, let's say... wealthy) man will suddenly overlook the fact that they've basically slept with 984735689476892462 guys and take her and love her for who she is and go on with their merry lives and live happily ever after.

/sarcasm?"


That's what I thought of when I read this thread.

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ahahahahahahahahahhaahhahaha fuck

you are so shit

[stampede]

lmao sino best

also OP do wat u want never ask people for their opinions

btw im pretty sure if u had to even ask that q u cant pick up chicks

sorry bro

[Arcorn]

The last L&R thread Shadow was saying sensible things. Now I come to this one and I want to stab him, repeatedly.

But seriously, staying a virgin until marriage is stupid. Do you really want to marry a dead lay?

[stampede]

yes i want my wife to be a virgin wat are u guna do about it

[zombie omie jay]

sex is 50% personality and 50% training anyway
if they are shit roots then they are probably self conscious and have had some lame cunt teaching her bad habits
get a virgin, train her up
good as gold

[onur91]

That film clip/song is amazing. Has some random cameos.

Anything Lonely Island does is awesome. Ever see Dick in a Box? Hilarious.

[Arcorn]

sex is 50% personality and 50% training anyway
if they are shit roots then they are probably self conscious and have had some lame cunt teaching her bad habits
get a virgin, train her up
good as gold

Well, the girl I lost my virginity to was a starfish. She lied about being mistreated to get attention and continually put herself down(Which I stopped her doing) but she was a terrible lay. She was like fucking a plank.