Do guys expect this in a relationship?

[LadyLaLa]

Well this question is mainly targeting at guys but ladies if you wish to share your opinion... go ahead.

So I was wandering... Do you guys expect your girlfriend to sleep (sexually) with you? If so how long into the relationship will you start to expect? Would you leave her if she refuses?
Can you guys expand on your thoughts.

[boris]

yes
instantly
yes

[LadyLaLa]

yes
instantly
yes

really? what would you think of her?

[Riproot]

Yes.
Depends on age (if it takes more that 3 months to start having sex they're gone).
Yes.

[boris]

not worth pursuing a relationship with

[kaz1]

Isn't it meant to be the third date?

Or is that just TV

[asari]

Boys these days don't like waiting unfortunately haha

[LadyLaLa]

not worth pursuing a relationship with

Yes.
Depends on age (if it takes more that 3 months to start having sex they're gone).
Yes.

Since you guys said yes to leaving her... If you were ever in a relationship was it a serious one? Cause it sounds like you're in it for the sex.

[thrillkiller]

not worth pursuing a relationship with

wow

[boris]

Since you guys said yes to leaving her... If you were ever in a relationship was it a serious one? Cause it sounds like you're in it for the sex.

isnt everyone

[asari]

Are you in a relationship now boris?

[LadyLaLa]

isnt everyone

"everyone" would be unrealistic though. I mean there should be people out there who respect their other half's decision...

[boris]

i was only joking lol
of course you wouldnt expect someone to sleep with you on the first date or even within several weeks of seeing each other lol but i would say there is a stage where there is no point in continuing the relationship if there is no sex

[boris]

although if she does fuck on first date that is fantastic

[asari]

although if she does fuck on first date that is fantastic

it's really not, if she does, poor you, because I would assume that she's too easy and you won't even going to be in a relationship with her lol

[LadyLaLa]

it's really not, if she does, poor you, because I would assume that she's too easy and you won't even going to be in a relationship with her lol

I agree... unless you (Boris) weren't looking for a serious relationship to begin with then that should be fine with you.

[boris]

see now who is not respecting the choices of others

[thrillkiller]

there is no such thing as respecting the choice of others on this site

[boris]

it's really not, if she does, poor you, because I would assume that she's too easy and you won't even going to be in a relationship with her lol

or maybe she is just comfortable with her sexuality and enjoys sex?

[asari]

see now who is not respecting the choices of others

haha

[asari]

or maybe she is just comfortable with her sexuality and enjoys sex?

maybe ....

[boris]

see you cant have it both ways
if you want people to respect the choice to not have sex you have to respect the choice to have sex

[Riproot]

Since you guys said yes to leaving her... If you were ever in a relationship was it a serious one? Cause it sounds like you're in it for the sex.

I've been in a serious relationship before.

It was two years.
We didn't have sex.
Mostly because we were 12 and I'm gay.

But seriously, what's the point of a relationship without sex?
Like, you could just be friends.

i was only joking lol
of course you wouldnt expect someone to sleep with you on the first date or even within several weeks of seeing each other lol but i would say there is a stage where there is no point in continuing the relationship if there is no sex

this.

[LadyLaLa]

see now who is not respecting the choices of others

lol yea sorry haha

[LadyLaLa]

I've been in a serious relationship before.

It was two years.
We didn't have sex.
Mostly because we were 12 and I'm gay.

But seriously, what's the point of a relationship without sex?
Like, you could just be friends.

this.

Yea I guess cause during PDHPE my class went off track and talked about how it should be fine that the guy invites a stripper to a party and that he should be allowed to sleeps with a stripper before his wedding day... i dunno something like that..i forgot. My teacher oppose of the stripper idea and said that she would want her fiance to be her first without sleeping around with others before their wedding day. They were in the relationship for around 10 years. What she said pretty much hints that she was still a virgin....