SHOULD PEOPLE have sex with lites on or off? (1 Viewer)

[david88]

Do people turn off the lites wen having becoz the other person isnt attractive. why do people do it wif the lites on. is it becoz the only way they can get turned on is becoz they see a hot body. I thought sex was a special passionate thing whereby two people who love each other do it

 

[= Jennifer =]

spell check lights

 

[azzie]

i like having it in the dark just coz then you rely on your selse of touch and hearing and that rather than sight which is something you have to use every day and is kinda boring
sex with the lights on kinda seems silly

 

[aj_number_10]

wat i generally do is turn the lights off in my room
but then i also get candles n put them all round the room n light them so its a real romantic light.

as with alot of ppl on this forum, they would probly like the lights off too, so the person there having a go with cant see what they really look like

 

[azzie]

thanks, aj

 

[aj_number_10]

thanks, aj

nah i wasnt talking bout u darling
ur gorgous
i was refferring to the ppl who dont have the credentials we have.

 

[azzie]

*cough*

uhhm.
yeha. so anyway guys...

 

[Sgt_Johnym]

lights on, i would like to c wat im doing ....and by saying that doing it right

 

[soha]

never been in that situation
but id like them off
with some sort of dim light..like.....candles...or...a night light...
if you know what i mean
coz it could get pitch black ....and you wouldnt want the window curtains open...
so yeah..

 

[Collin]

Lights dimmed is nice.

 

[aj_number_10]

JKDRAGON knows what hes on about
Dimmed is what you want

 

[peteski01]

i prefer them on, but not full on.. a little bit dimmed. fully pitch black isn't my style, but i guess ive never tried it

 

[absolution*]

Lights off because im an ugly mutt.

 

[mmm_sofay]

i once had sex outside in the dark while veru intoxicated. i cant remember if the actual sex was good or not, but it was probly quite awkward as we were both very drunk.
and couldnt really see what we were doing.so yeah

but i like sex with some light on, either lights dimmed, but my bedroom doesnt have a light dimmer, and i dont want to have sex in the loungeroom as its open plan living area whcih connects with the dinning room, and the front door opens into the loungeroom. so i like sex in my room with the blind shut so its dark, but with my glitter lamp on, as its a dim light, yet casts amazing shdows around the room from the light reflecting off the glitter.
i often just lay in my bed with just my glitter lamp on coz its just so retro funky coolnessoso

 

[MiuMiu]

For fuck sake there isn't a way you're supposed to have sex. Im sick of virgins trying to dictate to us how they think sex should be performed when they've never put it into practice themselves.

 

[truly-in-bliss]

dimmed lights..

 

[ur_inner_child]

I never really thought about the lights....

Not a major factor for me. lol.

 

[deviation]

yea i dont really mind either.. thought sometimes accuracy is important

 

[Dash]

Total darkness would be shit... dimmed light is the way to go...
Enuff to see the curves of her face/body and when close enuff... her face...

 

[OZGIRL86]

depends what you feel comfortable with,either lights on/off/dimmed, whatever