Would u rather someone tell u the truth or lie? (1 Viewer)

Do you like the truth?

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Winston

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So does everyone like hearing the truth from someone or you'd rather them lie, and not hear about it.
 

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well the thing is, even though i'd rather not hear the truth coz it's usually more painful, i always tell that personto tell it anyway (and regret asking them in the first place :p)

the truth hurts and unfortunately it's somtehing we gotta live with :(
 

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If it was something which involved me, truth always...i need honesty in a relationship

but if someone wants to badmouth someone to me, then i'd rather them not tell me...the truth about other people can sometimes really warp the way you act/feel around them
 

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Lie.

The only reason people tell the truth is because they have a huge amount of guilt. They're only telling the truth out of their own self-interest and do not take into account the feelings of the other person and how they will react. Keeping the truth from them is the only right and honourable thing to do.

If you tell them the truth you hurt them but at least get it off your chest. If you lie and they never find out, you're doing them a favour, even if you have to feel some guilt for a little while.
 

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Originally posted by Loz#1
Depends who I'm hearing the truth from.
Yeah i agree... and bah i heard it from someone i didn't want to hear from.
 

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Originally posted by Winston
Yeah i agree... and bah i heard it from someone i didn't want to hear from.
Then the truth is bad.
 

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Originally posted by Loz#1
Then the truth is bad.
Yeah, sucks... oh well... i guess the truth has revealed to me alot of shit about myself that i didn't realise.
 

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Even though i would like to be told the truth, i know that i will get upset and dislike the person. Despite the fact that they are doing me a favour and telling me to my face rathar than when my face is turned.
 

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"lies make baby Jesus cry"
- Ned flander's kid off the simpsons....forgot his name...todd?
 

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Originally posted by Winston
Yeah, sucks... oh well... i guess the truth has revealed to me alot of shit about myself that i didn't realise.
But if the person said it to be vindictive and cruel, then it's not good and your fault?
 

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Originally posted by Loz#1
But if the person said it to be vindictive and cruel, then it's not good and your fault?
yeah but i guess i deserved in the fact that i am a true blue asshole and i guess whatever they said was damn right... however i still didn't want it coming from that person, i mean i can hack it taking from anyone but this person, but oh well fuck it...
 

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One thing people have taught me so far:

People fucking suck.
 

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Originally posted by Winston
So does everyone like hearing the truth from someone or you'd rather them lie, and not hear about it.
Truth. any day, being lied to sucked a harder wang than ron jeremy.
 

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i suppose it depends what needs to be said....sometimes it's nicer not to hear the truth, but usually it's better to be honest with people....saves the hassle of explaining things when ur lies get found out
 

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[doesn't know what a Ron Jeremy is]

It depends on what the matter in question is. I mean, if someone told me I hadn't won lotto...when I had... I'd be unhappy.
 

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Originally posted by Lexicographer
[doesn't know what a Ron Jeremy is
A porn star. A very ugly one at that, but has scored with so many women.
 

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Originally posted by Ziff
Lie.

The only reason people tell the truth is because they have a huge amount of guilt. They're only telling the truth out of their own self-interest and do not take into account the feelings of the other person and how they will react. Keeping the truth from them is the only right and honourable thing to do.

If you tell them the truth you hurt them but at least get it off your chest. If you lie and they never find out, you're doing them a favour, even if you have to feel some guilt for a little while.
Wrong. Some people (the speaker) tell those who are close to them (the listener) the truth because it gives the listener an accurate representation of how the speaker truly feels, rather than the listener only having someone who tells them what they want to hear.

This disproves your flimsy claim that people only tell the truth cos they have a huge amount of guilt. Some people prefer having truthful people around them who don't make them happy 100% of the time, than being surrounded by agreeable machines who tells lies to maintain the (artificial) flow of happiness.

:)
 

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Originally posted by ~*HSC 4 life*~
If it was something which involved me, truth always...i need honesty in a relationship

but if someone wants to badmouth someone to me, then i'd rather them not tell me...the truth about other people can sometimes really warp the way you act/feel around them
Originally posted by ~*HSC 4 life*~
"lies make baby Jesus cry"
- Ned flander's kid off the simpsons....forgot his name...todd?
hahaha, I like you
 

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