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Yeah, it is definitely not the best way to go about keeping in touch, I agree completely with you there, but a friendship is only as strong as you want it to be, personal contact doesn't have to be involved much at all. Even if you live relatively close to some friends, between working, uni, or school I suppose, and other engagements it can be very hard to keep in relatively regular contact, online journals help to a degree, plus they can be just an entertaining way of telling your friends, and completely random strangers, about any trivial thing that you think they may enjoy to hear about at the end of a busy day - how personal or 'warm' you make it is up to who ever wrote it and how well the people reading it know that person.Sarah168 said:yeah, i've heard of blogs being used as a way of "catching up with friends". Like, to keep up with the lives of your friends or something. As far as i can see, if you can't meet your freinds often enough , or phone them, or go out, i dont see where the friendship is. Of course, if its an overseas/ insterstate thing, then i understand. Otherwise, i dont get it. friends staying in contact by reading each others blogs? thats a little impersonal and cold.
lol, don't get me wrong, I'm a highly social person and love being able to see and speak with friends - we rarely contact each other using the internet, such as with msn, but I know a few times when using forums like livejournal etc. are a better option, quick, easy, normally funny and a great way of letting a wider circle of friends know whats happening.
I hope that sounded intelligent, but if not, oh well, I have to go out and get ready for dinner with friends now.