if YOU/GF WERE PREGNANT RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD YOU DO? (1 Viewer)

IF YOU OR YOUR PARTNER WERE PREGNANT WHAT WOULD YOU DO

  • Abort

    Votes: 75 50.0%
  • Keep him/her

    Votes: 43 28.7%
  • Hide under a table and hope everything will be okay

    Votes: 9 6.0%
  • I'd be lost and confused

    Votes: 23 15.3%

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ur_inner_child

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I'm narrowing the abortion debate down to a personal level.

If you, or your girlfriend (and if you don't have one, lets pretend you do) were pregant RIGHT NOW, and you know it for sure, what would you do???

Personally right now??? RIGHT NOW if i was pregnant I'd abort (and no late abortions too). I'm in no shape of form to carry a child for nine months - I'm underweight, emotionally unstable, financially unstable, from a cultural background that would leave me "disowned", therefore committing to a job is even harder and I'm fucked in the head. I hope it doesn't turn into another abortion debate, but I wanna know who's actually "ready" to face consequences.



Oh and no I'm not pregnant and give reasons for your answer by the way.
 

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Kick her in the stomach or flee the country. That or support her in getting an abortion.
 

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She'd abort, I would support her. I'd be quite saddened of course, wondering what the child would have been like. But it would completely ruin both our lives not to.
 

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wheres the 'my parents would murder me" option..........id be disowned, but id keep it.........however a friend of mine is 17, married and pregnant and shes keeping the baby.......actaully shes ova the moon.
 

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17 and married?!?!?! what a fucked up life she's gonna have!
 

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i personally would want to keep the baby. i think you should take responsibility in this case. its not the babies fault that they exist so they should be aloud to live.
 

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BreaKing said:
17 and married?!?!?! what a fucked up life she's gonna have!

Nah, different people have different views. Bit risky but mehhh.

On a weird tangent, my uncle married really young, partied to the hardest, didn't want to "aim" for a top position in a career etc and was considered going no where.

He died pretty early. So i'd say things worked out for him. He lived life to the fullest.

(Not saying your friend is going to die early, I'm just saying, each to their own?)
 

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natstar said:
its not always the parents fault either. No contraception method offers 100% protection, and accidents can happen. So the only responsible thing to do is dont have sex..
yeah i understand that. but it should not be a vulnerable babies fault that they exist either. i personally couldnt have a baby aborted because it is inconvenient. they cant help existing and in my opinion i dont think they should have to die for the reason they are not wanted. they could get adopted or something
 

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I'd abort - same reasons as inner child.
I'm only 16 for god's sake...
 

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BreaKing said:
damn i thought you were like 18 lol
oh *raises eyebrow archly* nearly 17 though.
so what would you do BreaKing?
 

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I'm with most other people. I'd abort. I don't think I want kids ever, let along when I'm 17. Talk about a way to ruin your life. Not everyone's of course, maybe having children at 17 is some people's thing, but not mine.
If the baby was already 24 weeks or later, which wouldn't happen of course because I'd alread yhave aborted, but hypothetically speaking, then I'd probably have it and give it up for adoption.
 

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cherryblossom said:
oh *raises eyebrow archly* nearly 17 though.
so what would you do BreaKing?

well i voted in the poll....... that should answer your question :)
 

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Asquithian said:
I mean im sure people would like to keep the unborn child. But who would. Thats the question.
I see you are also having signature issues

what is up with that, the size thing doesn't work anymore
 

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Asquithian said:
I mean im sure people would like to keep the unborn child. But who would. Thats the question.
lol.... where would they keep it? in a jar on the shelf?
 

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SelphieBoffin said:
I'm with most other people. I'd abort. I don't think I want kids ever, let along when I'm 17. Talk about a way to ruin your life. Not everyone's of course, maybe having children at 17 is some people's thing, but not mine.
If the baby was already 24 weeks or later, which wouldn't happen of course because I'd alread yhave aborted, but hypothetically speaking, then I'd probably have it and give it up for adoption.
it's not a public poll though.
I'm with sephie, I've heard of people 7 months pregnant and not knowing...
 

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cherryblossom said:
it's not a public poll though.
I'm with sephie, I've heard of people 7 months pregnant and not knowing...
How could they not know?

"oh... my period is 7 months late. mehhh"

Pardon any ignorance I have? Wait, was that what you meant?
 

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ur_inner_child said:
How could they not know?

"oh... my period is 7 months late. mehhh"

Pardon any ignorance I have? Wait, was that what you meant?
well some people have very irregular periods, and sometimes when you're pregnant it still comes, but in smaller amounts.
Oh god, why am I answering these types of questions.
 

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