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ahahaha this made me laaaugh LOL coming from a super smart guy such as urself ahahhaa :')

Its almost like ur saying "I want tits and ass and at least some brains" with emphasis on tits and ass HAHAHA
That's a very shallow conclusion to come to.

all these things are nice, sure, but at the end of the day, you can't control who you're attracted to.

eg hi seanie89, I'm open minded and more than moderately intelligent, why aren't we dating? BECAUSE THERE'S A WHOLE LOT OF OTHER STUFF TOO.

you can't summarise your ideal person in 2 words.
This is also true.
 

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all these things are nice, sure, but at the end of the day, you can't control who you're attracted to.

eg hi seanie89, I'm open minded and more than moderately intelligent, why aren't we dating? BECAUSE THERE'S A WHOLE LOT OF OTHER STUFF TOO.

you can't summarise your ideal person in 2 words.
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all these things are nice, sure, but at the end of the day, you can't control who you're attracted to.

eg hi seanie89, I'm open minded and more than moderately intelligent, why aren't we dating? BECAUSE THERE'S A WHOLE LOT OF OTHER STUFF TOO.

you can't summarise your ideal person in 2 words.
Haha well obviously. And attraction is often because of really intangible factors...just thought I'd chuck out two of the more important things that a girl I would want to date would have to have for the sake of discussion, they are two of the less obvious deal-breakers for me. I wouldn't trust anyone to choose a girl for me based on a few sentences I write.
 

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all these things are nice, sure, but at the end of the day, you can't control who you're attracted to.

eg hi seanie89, I'm open minded and more than moderately intelligent, why aren't we dating? BECAUSE THERE'S A WHOLE LOT OF OTHER STUFF TOO.

you can't summarise your ideal person in 2 words.
Obviously other factors exist but some have greater weighting than others. People are just listing the ones they place the most weighting on.
 

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Obviously other factors exist but some have greater weighting than others. People are just listing the ones they place the most weighting on.
wouldn't being attracted to the person need to be pretty high up then??
 

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wouldn't being attracted to the person need to be pretty high up then??
Of course, but I figured that physical attraction was implied as being of universal importance. I think my weighting on the two things I mentioned is less so.
 

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what the fuck does "do u have proof of the original post" mean?

Do you mean do I have proof of you admitting to having Asperger's?

I would say yes.
 

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Of course, but I figured that physical attraction was implied as being of universal importance. I think my weighting on the two things I mentioned is less so.
I'd hope being trustworthy and nice and good personality are also of universal importance, but apparently not, considering how often they've been mentioned.
 

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I'd hope being trustworthy and nice and good personality are also of universal importance, but apparently not, considering how often they've been mentioned.
I mentioned good personality .
 

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