mack
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Yeah I couldn't resist his sexiness. I gave him access to my m00bs as well. It was awesome.
yeah. it's the personality that makes the length/quality of the relationship butdeviation said:but physical attraction is what gets everyone at first.. how can u feel anything for someone if u havent talked to them yet. Initially it comes down to their hot factor!
I have two Christmas wishes for ya.JKDDragon said:Keypad is hot shit, I picked him up at a party and he sucked my m00bs all night long.
Those percentages are not the same as the one in the ladder theory, but okay.lesmiester_dj said:i know people will give me a rant about this. but refer to the ladder theory.
i reckon its about 30% looks and 60% personality and 10% circumstances
I love you too JKDJKDDragon said:I love you ur_inner_child
No.wanton-wonton said:I have two Christmas wishes for ya.
1) shut up about m00bs.
2) shut up about poo/turd/shit etc.
woah i got my fair share there. i agree with soem of the concepts of superficiality that is mentioned in the ladder theory.ur_inner_child said:Those percentages are not the same as the one in the ladder theory, but okay.
The reason why people will give you a rant about this is because it attempts to explain something that is complicated, different to each individual, subjective, and involves too many variables. It's merely defined what we find attractive in the first part of the relationship. For example the "oh he's hot", "she's got money" and "he has a big penis".
These are all well and good, but the reason why people don't like the ladder theory is that there is much more to the superficial and the motives involved in a relationship.
Each day you are learning about how compatible you are with the person you're with. Each action has a reaction. The way we choose our actions, determine everything afterwards. For example, what we can forgive, how sorry we are, the very words we say etc. Any crisis/event that happens, attraction determines nothing. Personality rules all.
Personality determines all at this point: how you deal with problems, how you deal with your partner's emotions, and how to deal with your own.
Failure to patch things up, forget, or to communicate means the relationship is over, NO MATTER how hot or rich or how much you put out you both think you are
I love you too JKD
I really agreed with the 'I love JKD bit'lesmiester_dj said:woah i got my fair share there. i agree with soem of the concepts of superficiality that is mentioned in the ladder theory.
Sure thing babe, I love you too.mack said:I love you JKD. Please be the mother of my children.
Ahh, yes see people must understand that the ladder theory is really defining "how likely you are to have sex withthis person", not how likely a relationship will work.ur_inner_child said:Those percentages are not the same as the one in the ladder theory, but okay.
The reason why people will give you a rant about this is because it attempts to explain something that is complicated, different to each individual, subjective, and involves too many variables. It's merely defined what we find attractive in the first part of the relationship. For example the "oh he's hot", "she's got money" and "he has a big penis".
These are all well and good, but the reason why people don't like the ladder theory is that there is much more to the superficial and the motives involved in a relationship.
what do you expect? it's their sugardaddys!stainmepink said:u know what. ive always seen really pretty girls go out with really ugly guys.. but never the other way round. beg to differ anyone?