attentive guys... what to do? (2 Viewers)

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first of all, i love attentive guys. i just have one tiny lil question. Do they want you to let them do everything for you or do they really just want you to get off your ass and do it yourself?
 

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first of all, i love attentive guys. i just have one tiny lil question. Do they want you to let them do everything for you or do they really just want you to get off your ass and do it yourself?
haha good question... i'll be watching this thread for the answer :D
 

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I think they just wanna do it because they love you. It is one way to show that they care. But they would like to be appreciated in return, eg. just a simple thankyou, or compliments for their work
 

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yeah i fuckin hate it when i do something small (something i'd normally ignore/neglect) for gf but she doesn't thank me/acknowledge it.

but then again, i'm not doing it for the acknowledgement in the first place
 

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first of all, i love attentive guys. i just have one tiny lil question. Do they want you to let them do everything for you or do they really just want you to get off your ass and do it yourself?
Acknowledgement is all that's needed
 

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yeah i fuckin hate it when i do something small (something i'd normally ignore/neglect) for gf but she doesn't thank me/acknowledge it.

but then again, i'm not doing it for the acknowledgement in the first place
acknowledgement is good.

i agree, not that you do it to be acknowledged, but a thankyou wouldn't go astray.
 

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i wouldnt care about acknowledgement, i'd do it because i wanted to.
someone's going to take advantage of you one day, and you're going to end up in a marriage where you wait on your wife and get no thanks in return.

unless you listen to our advice......... =]].
 

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someone's going to take advantage of you one day, and you're going to end up in a marriage where you wait on your wife and get no thanks in return.

unless you listen to our advice......... =]].
"Theres a little thing called love..."

Im sure theres a song with this lyric, unless my mind has being fabricating brilliant pieces of advice lately. Althought im sure my intellect is not on that level.

But otherwise, thats good advice.
 

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"Theres a little thing called love..."

Im sure theres a song with this lyric, unless my mind has being fabricating brilliant pieces of advice lately. Althought im sure my intellect is not on that level.

But otherwise, thats good advice.
haha, yeah i'd do lots of stuff for my boyfriend, cause i love him, however, there comes a point where one just takes advantage of the other, then you know you need to bail quick smart =].
 

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someone's going to take advantage of you one day, and you're going to end up in a marriage where you wait on your wife and get no thanks in return.

unless you listen to our advice......... =]].
i actually do this often, help ppl, do stuff for others, and i dont expect stuff in return.

just kinda sux when im the one who wants something done and the other person is like 'nah i cant for some reason'.

I mean.. i dont go and say 'wtf man i do all this stuff and i ask for 1 small thing u cant do it', but it does annoy me sometimes.
 

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first of all, i love attentive guys. i just have one tiny lil question. Do they want you to let them do everything for you or do they really just want you to get off your ass and do it yourself?
Depends what it is. Then again, I don't attribute my self-worth in a relationship by being my gf's bitch.

yeah i fuckin hate it when i do something small (something i'd normally ignore/neglect) for gf but she doesn't thank me/acknowledge it.

but then again, i'm not doing it for the acknowledgement in the first place
You said it was small, though? Chances are, she didn't notice it in the first place?

i wouldnt care about acknowledgement, i'd do it because i wanted to.
Have you had a gf yet, omie?
 

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i actually do this often, help ppl, do stuff for others, and i dont expect stuff in return.

just kinda sux when im the one who wants something done and the other person is like 'nah i cant for some reason'.

I mean.. i dont go and say 'wtf man i do all this stuff and i ask for 1 small thing u cant do it', but it does annoy me sometimes.
haha, i'm not saying do nothing nice for others. you just want to watch being exploited 'tis all. =]].
 

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