Just want to stay alone for the rest of my life... anyone? (2 Viewers)

[Omie Jay]

thats exactly true. a fear of commitment.
I dont talk to girls, cause i dont want to get attached, or even to get to know them.

My parents were fearful that there was something wrong with me, but i explained it to them, and they actually said something close to what you mentioned.

but ill still stick with what my current decisions are. That is to not get attached.

but, thanks omie.

how can u not wanna? maybe just build on self confidence?

 

[Sarah182]

Eh, I tend to avoid commitment at all costs as well, I just prefer to be alone.... Not so much friendwise, but in a relationship sense.

 

[Sadiah]

Eh, I tend to avoid commitment at all costs as well, I just prefer to be alone.... Not so much friendwise, but in a relationship sense.

Your sig suggests otherwise.

 

[Grape juice]

how can u not wanna? maybe just build on self confidence?

i have been blocking it out by dwelling in my work and studies. I dont join any clubs or societies, and ive stopped playing my most loved sport,golf, ever since my pet passed away.

Besides that, id spend most of my other time with my family, on holidays or trips to visit my relatives.

Im not really sure its my self confidence, but im certain that i fear another painful loss.

 

[Sadiah]

i have been blocking it out by dwelling in my work. I dont join any clubs or societies, and ive stopped playing my most loved sport,golf, ever since my pet passed away.

Besides that, id spend most of my other time with my family, on holidays or trips to visit my relatives.

Im not really sure its my self confidence, but im certain that i fear another painful loss.

Aww come on! Don't be so upset. You need counselling.

 

[Grape juice]

Aww come on! Don't be so upset. You need counselling.

ive never considered that. Also, Im not even open about my personal life when i talk to someone face to face.

Do you think that the counselor will think that im some sort of kook?

 

[Omie Jay]

lol councellers deal with kooks all the time

maybe you should consider one, but get professional advice, not internet strangers'/trolls advice

 

[Sadiah]

ive never considered that. Also, Im not even open about my personal life when i talk to someone face to face.

Do you think that the counselor will think that im some sort of kook?

My dad's a counsellor. And considering the cases he tells us about, a lot of people are like you. Dw.

Just go to a session, and you'll be just fine.

 

[Sarah182]

Your sig suggests otherwise.

HAHA well played, well played.

But honestly, I am scared of commitment

 

[Sadiah]

lol councellers deal with kooks all the time

maybe you should consider one, but get professional advice, not internet strangers'/trolls advice

Lawl, obviously.

But yerr, internetz advice isn't goodddd.

Go get realll advice, like Omie says.

but one internet advice please ,

consult a cousnellor.

 

[Sadiah]

HAHA well played, well played.

But honestly, I am scared of commitment

Why though?

 

[iRuler]

me too fuck this

life sucks

 

[Sadiah]

me too fuck this

life sucks

OMG. Another one?

Okay, so people .. we have three alikes in this thread.

OP, you're not the only one, afterall.

 

[gouge.away]

Lawl, obviously.

But yerr, internetz advice isn't goodddd.

Go get realll advice, like Omie says.

but one internet advice please ,

consult a cousnellor.

@ Grape Juice

consider cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT). worked a treat, but like all good things, it takes time and effort.

 

[Grape juice]

My dad's a counsellor. And considering the cases he tells us about, a lot of people are like you. Dw.

Just go to a session, and you'll be just fine.

thanks guys.

 

[emiliieee]

born alone.
die alone.
why not live alone. and not have anyone.

but that's sad isnt it? you gotta at least have someone?

 

[iRuler]

OMG. Another one?

Okay, so people .. we have three alikes in this thread.

OP, you're not the only one, afterall.

well only because i fucked up physics. i swear life sucks, so unfair.

and this is literally me ""

 

[Sarah182]

Why though?

Honestly, I have no idea.
Whenever I find someone and they want to get into relationship mode I freak and all of a sudden I am blowing them off to spend a night on facebook. It's actually quite worrying.....

 

[Sadiah]

well only because i fucked up physics. i swear life sucks, so unfair.

and this is literally me ""

Lol. Dude, we're talking about life here.

Not hsc life.



But yerrr, who cares ... you still have a few months to go until the big big hsc.

 

[Sadiah]

Honestly, I have no idea.
Whenever I find someone and they want to get into relationship mode I freak and all of a sudden I am blowing them off to spend a night on facebook. It's actually quite worrying.....

Consult a counsellor.