finding solace (2 Viewers)

[stainmepink]

aaaand here i am again on the love and relationships thread. me and my boyfriend just separated a few hours ago from 3 and a half years of togetherness. i dont want to go cry off my problems to someone else, so suggestions please on how i can find solace by myself. chocolate just doesnt work. if youre wanting to shit me futher please dont do it now.

 

[braad]

sorry to hear, get a punching bag..honestly

 

[jumb]

Ice cream and girlie movies?

Or perhaps Simple Plan and razor blades.

 

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[stainmepink]

Ice cream and girlie movies?

Or perhaps Simple Plan and razor blades.

hello brad and jumb no haha ... i dont feel suicidal, just bloody awful. or emotionally drained. yep .. bos is just the first place to go for this sort of thing... ive never broken up with anyone before ... so i've always wondered how people cope with this kind of thing.

 

[braad]

hullo....errr gobaby

yeh, well, jumb has a good point, simple plan would make you commit suicide...

 

[stainmepink]

hullo....errr gobaby

yeh, well, jumb has a good point, simple plan would make you commit suicide...

if you wanted to commit suicide i suggest linkin park is better. but lets not talk about that. we wouldnt want to get ideas now .. do people just cry all day and eventually forget about it? i could never forget anything because its been so bloody long and i've always spent time with him. im so hungry but i dont even feel like eating.

 

[Dreamerish*~]

awww i'm sorry to hear that.

it's impossible not to think about it at all. but try talking to other people, as many as you can. that's all i can think of...

if you really want to cry, don't stop yourself.

 

[braad]

make sure you eat and drink. That in itself is a worry with girls when they rbeak up, friends do it...not eat that is, and it's stupid. Dont hurt your own body by not eating.

Anyway....it's a long time

 

[Alimoe_KG]

Go for a run. A long one. Bring some music.

 

[chelzmalee]

My remedy is lots of hugs and girlie movies.

And icecream.

 

[Frigid]

sushi. lots and lots of sushi.

after that, you need to do it all with an ice mocha.

then you go sit in a violent macho movie with no lovey-dovey stuff.

then life goes on

 

[Jago]

rebound sex.

that or just move the fuck on.

 

[stainmepink]

yeh. our love lives were like the people in "the notebook"

*sigh* oh god. its starting to sink in. i'll just waste away on bos until i feel i can leave this chair.

 

[shady_03]

Go out and fuk every guy u know until ur ova it

 

[_muse_]

oh no thats horrible, im so sorry to hear that..
you HAVE to eat, the more you dont eat the weaker you will become and more emotional and eep you'll be more of a mess than i assume you already are.
talk to someone - a friend, a parent/guardian, someone you feel comfortable with expressing how you feel
DON'T try and forget it's not worth it, let all the tears, screams and grief out before you decide to move on.
Do something that you enjoy, go out with ur friends, catch a movie - preferably not a lovey one something that will create even the smallest smile on your face
keep the memories of your years together but when its all over, dont keep the heartache

thats my advice anyway, thats how i move on from relationships

 

[jumb]

you HAVE to eat, the more you dont eat the weaker you will become and more emotional and eep you'll be more of a mess than i assume you already are.

Yeah, but don't use this as an excuse to become a fatty.

 

[_muse_]

Yeah, but don't use this as an excuse to become a fatty.

:uhhuh: good point

 

[waterbottle]

girlie movies and icecream would be the last things i'd want if i were in that position. surely you have a friend you can talk to about it. or if not then just learn to deal with it. there's not much you can do.

 

[jumb]

girlie movies and icecream would be the last things i'd want if i were in that position. surely you have a friend you can talk to about it. or if not then just learn to deal with it. there's not much you can do.

Nah, don't girls watch shitty girly movies while in their pyjamas and slippers, with ice cream running down their face as they scream "wwwwwhhhyyy isn't my love life like that" *cry*

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