Born in Australia.
I can speak like I was born in China, but my grammar is a bit flimsy... as in, the accent is great, but this is because my parents made a rule that they wouldn't respond to me unless I was speaking to them in Cantonese... which I suppose it great
They've tried countless times to teach me to read and write Cantonese... they probably should have started teaching me to when I was really young, rather than while I was 15, and probably should've persisted, rather than give me a crash course on how to read and write for one month, then not teach me for months after that.
So I can write my name... and I've been told my writing in Chinese is really beautiful, but no, can't read or write.
Oh, and when it comes to values and culture, I'm fairly selective with both, which my parents never quite liked. I have friends from various backgrounds, so I'm not exclusive to what people believe to be "either Asian" or "either *white* people". So none of those banana analogies really apply...