Why do old men like me, rather than guys my own age? :O (2 Viewers)

[lolitaaa]

Hellpppp. I know you think I am a strange person but I don't know who to ask! I can't ask my parents, so I'll ask here.
Like MOST(not all o the time), random OLD men I see staring at me, I look at them and they just stare. what the actual heck?
Guys my age don't really give a crap.
Can anyone help me on this issue? I'm like getting freaked out! what is the reason for this? I tried figuring it out but I don't get it helllppp

 

[JohnMaximus]

they're looking at your mom you fukkin psycho

 

[lolitaaa]

and no I don't dress inappropriately. I'm always full covered, no tight fitting clothes. So it is definitely not about physical appearance. any psychologist students here?

 

[lolitaaa]

they're looking at your mom you fukkin psycho

wtf are you on about

 

[Squar3root]

Maybe you're are in fact subjectively attractive or maybe it was a one off occurrence and you're just over reacting

 

[crazy_paki123]

if you dont mind me asking, how old are you and these alleged "old men"?

 

[lolitaaa]

if you dont mind me asking, how old are you and these alleged "old men"?

They range from what seems like 28 ish to 50. Yesterday I had one that looked 70.
Guys I'm not even kidding, this happens on a regular basis, and I hate it!
That's why I tend not to go out much, and when I do (usually this happens).
TO give you a frequency, i'D say about once a month it happens.
please help! ((

 

[lolitaaa]

Maybe you're are in fact subjectively attractive or maybe it was a one off occurrence and you're just over reacting

Nup not over-reacting, and not one off, dead serious here

 

[iStudent]

Take it as a compliment?

 

[lolitaaa]

Take it as a compliment?

yuck don't you reckon it's gross though? I do

If it was guys my own age then I wouldn't mind. But it's not. GUYs on bos!! What do you think old men see in an 18 year old chic who's really normal (slightly goth, but I've toned it down) and who is unattractive to other 18yo s??

 

[obliviousninja]

Maybe they just like giving candy

 

[User5555555]

They're being downright creepy, not trying to be rude.

 

[Chronost]

Get a bf, they'll stop staring then.

 

[Squar3root]

Once a month isn't that bad. Maybe you're just being hypersensitive about it. If you do feel as though your safety is at risk then you should speak to someone (irl)

 

[lolitaaa]

Get a bf, they'll stop staring then.

like what, I can't just get one for the sake of it

 

[lolitaaa]

Once a month isn't that bad. Maybe you're just being hypersensitive about it. If you do feel as though your safety is at risk then you should speak to someone (irl)

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[Squar3root]

like what, I can't just get one for the sake of it

If it is concerning you, then definitely speak to someone about (again irl)

 

[Squar3root]

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well there were people at my school who did dress up in an "offense" manner and they turned a lot of heads daily. But you said above dress conservatively so.........

 

[Squar3root]

all da ladiz look at mi caz I am soooo hawt

 

[Cleavage]

Ikr

I h8 when old men stare at me

and my ass