What do you look for in the opposite sex? (1 Viewer)

[smegger_em]

what i was saying in my above psost is what i find attractive is certainly not preceived as perfect (as you put it) by most guys. all my friends can't beleive the girls that i find attractive.

 

[my sharona]

um... okay... i kind of see your point... i did before but i already started arguing so i kept going...

Isn't it a bit superficial to be basing what you look for in a girl purely on appearance?
does personality count for anything these days?

probably not
*sigh*

 

[smegger_em]

i had said that i like quiet reserved girls...and i'll give you a huge list of what i find attrractive in a girl's personality, but only if you want. because if i do, i'll probably be at the risk of more persecution.

 

[my sharona]

i quote nietzsche (and no, im not a pretentious uni student)
"insects sting, not from malice, but because they want to live. It is the same with critics - they desire our blood, not our pain."

*rei waits for another big long list to carefully scrutinize*

 

[smegger_em]

hahaha very nice. ok.

*thinks he doesn't know why he's doing this*



1. like is said before; intelligent, not overly, just kind of bookish.
2. outgoing in a very specific way. like i said, i wouldn't want her to be assertive around people, but i'd like to be able to take her camping. i don't want her to be a girly girl
3. friendly (in a shy way)
4. really soft, like loving
5. good set of morals
6. i want a personality i can really connect with
7. i don't know if this is part of her personality, but a very touchy girl friend...as in one that likes to touch (hug, stroke caress, etc) people she loves a lot
8. doesn't have to be totally emotionally stable...i don't mind is she cries a lot

...um there's heaps more, but i can't think of them off the top of my head.

what do you think of that? going to "suck the blood" out of me after seeing that?

 

[my sharona]

no
quite the contrary

i will protect you from all the haters with their sharp pointy toothpicks..!

only thing that annoys me in the slightest is the heaps more which you promised but didnt deliver
false advertising...

 

[smegger_em]

ok i've got a girl that would come close to perfect (even though she's fictitious). have you seen two hands? you know the character that plays....ohhh i can't remember her name....rocket's sister. yeah, i'm in love with her. that's another thing about her personality; i'd like her to be kind of daggy, and arty at the same time. i'd like it if she could laugh at herself and me if we did something stupid

 

[my sharona]

Originally posted by smegger_em
ok i've got a girl that would come close to perfect (even though she's fictitious). have you seen two hands? you know the character that plays....ohhh i can't remember her name....rocket's sister. yeah, i'm in love with her. that's another thing about her personality; i'd like her to be kind of daggy, and arty at the same time. i'd like it if she could laugh at herself and me if we did something stupid

for me... i have a cartoon character... :s
David Sorenson from Daria

 

[smegger_em]

ok yeah admitably it's not huge, but it's bigger than the list of what physical attributes i find attractive in a girl...david soernson...is that jane's brother? if it is...you know that your wedding night song, "lachlan"...that's what i imagine lachlan to be like.

 

[my sharona]

jane's brother is trent lane
david sorenson is daria's bf...

and who's lachlan?

 

[bex]

Originally posted by whiterabbit
for me... i have a cartoon character... :s
David Sorenson from Daria

which one is that?

 

[smegger_em]

well if you don't know the your wedding night song, then you won't know who lachlan is....just out of interest, do you have a list of things you find attractive in males...maybe then i can blame YOU for the insecurities of me and my friends

 

[Calculon]

Personality: Can't be dumb, but doesn't necessarily have to be uber smart either, just fun to be around.
Appearance: Beautiful eyes.

 

[my sharona]

i think i did something like this before... except in 'what do girls look for in a guy'... or maybe i was imagining it...

1. smart
2. patient
3. caring
4. funny
5. doesn't take things too seriously
6. likes soccer/rock music
7. has money (not necessarily richass, just not a povo)
8. not too tall, not too short, not too fat, not too thin, not ugly...
9. big warm hands (im not sure why)

this is the hard bit
10. likes/respects me for the weirdo i am

so... since i failed ur criteria miserably, lets see how poorly you did in mine..?

 

[Calculon]

Originally posted by whiterabbit
i think i did something like this before... except in 'what do girls look for in a guy'... or maybe i was imagining it...

1. smart ...yes
2. patient...dunno
3. caring..ask someone else about that one
4. funny....no
5. doesn't take things too seriously..i am generally serious
6. likes soccer/rock music...rock yes, soccer dont watch much
7. has money (not necessarily richass, just not a povo)...is it normal to have money while doing hsc and not working?
8. not too tall, not too short, not too fat, not too thin, not ugly...5'11", pic is in av, not fat or thin
9. big warm hands (im not sure why)..big hands, cold atm cos its winter

this is the hard bit
10. likes/respects me for the weirdo i am..i dont know you

so... since i failed ur criteria miserably, lets see how poorly you did in mine..? hmm i think i failed

 

[smegger_em]

hahahaha fuck! i got a D at least. and do you know what that means? you're contributing to my insecurities...ohhh waaaah! lol i'll give you the results

1. pfffft!
2. i guess i can be, with certain things
3. actually yeah, to people i love
4. nope, i'm boring (like my potential girfy)
5. depends, normally do
6. hate soccer...although, i do like rock music
7. failed. my parents do, but i definitely don't
8. i'm tall, i'm thin, i'm some girls think i'm ugly
9. lol this is where i really bomb out. i have really small blood capillaries in my hands so that they are ALWAYS cold
10. this iwhere i probably get the best marks...i really want a weirdo girl...but not ecentric...just quitely different...but that's obviously not the type of weirdo you are so maybe i don't get many marks there.

oh waaah! i'm going to go and be all insecure about that cause i'm not those things. i'm going to tell my friends they should be too. wah wah wah!

 

[nerd2die1]

props to smegger_em

 

[my sharona]

btw i take the money bit out... i dont really need it... actually all that matters is 1 and 10... and 8... and doesn't like r'n'b

Originally posted by smegger_em
oh waaah! i'm going to go and be all insecure about that cause i'm not those things. i'm going to tell my friends they should be too. wah wah wah!

why bother matching yourself to the standard? we already established that i failed yours miserably since im not short or modest enough...

or subservient

damn ugly picky guys...

 

[Malazn Pleasure]

Originally posted by whiterabbit
7. has money (not necessarily richass, just not a povo)
8. not too tall, not too short, not too fat, not too thin, not ugly...

haha i was just gona say something bout the money comment

argh damn!! i dont meet number 8 "not ugly"

 

[my sharona]

oh and btw im gonna add
11. likes english, has a good knowledge of literature in the past and present, enjoys deconstruction of books and poetry

so calculon... are you a math geek?