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How do your social circles react to fact, that you never had a girlfriend, and never kissed?

My old friends are the same way (20-year olds) so obviously they don't say anything. Family knows that I'm fucked up so they don't say anything. Bitches in college probably whisper behind my back. But never anyone told me boldly that I'm pathetic, which is strange.

I'm going to be turning 19 soon and I've never even kissed a girl, never held hands, or even hugged someone that wasn't a relative. Any others here in the same boat? How common do you think it really is? it's not so strange to maybe still be a virgin at my age but to be as inexperienced as I am is, well... downright embarrassing.

Also, How hard do you think it would be to find a girl in the same situation? I haven't completely given up on 3d I've just always figured it would be nearly impossible to find a girl like myself that isn't completely hideous or religious. Girls can admit they are inexperienced and guys will find that attractive whereas if I were to ever admit how inexperienced I am I get the feeling girls would be completely turned off and pity me.

I know this board already has enough insecure lonely people complaining about things but I figured I'd add my thoughts anyways, even if you don't reply thanks for reading.
 
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well im a girl, 17 years of age. I know a few guys from my school that havent kissed a girl. I was in a relationship once but he was an ass...we didnt hug much (only like twice) i have never kissed anyone or been kissed by someone that isnt a relative on the cheek.
i dont want my first kiss to be some stupid, meaningless high school thing
but to answer your question..though you may think that girls wouldnt go for you, i think there are girls out there that look for that
for example, me. I would not go for a guy that has kissed a girl before. I can't do it. So dont worry, you will find someone out there. :wave: I really hope this helps you :)
 

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" i think there are girls out there that look for that
for example, me. I would not go for a guy that has kissed a girl before. I can't do it. So dont worry, y"


What

why
 

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There are plenty of girls like that are in the same situation as you, so don't worry.

It doesn't really matter anyway, when you find the right person they won't care.
 
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How do your social circles react to fact, that you never had a girlfriend, and never kissed?

My old friends are the same way (20-year olds) so obviously they don't say anything. Family knows that I'm fucked up so they don't say anything. Bitches in college probably whisper behind my back. But never anyone told me boldly that I'm pathetic, which is strange.

I'm going to be turning 19 soon and I've never even kissed a girl, never held hands, or even hugged someone that wasn't a relative. Any others here in the same boat? How common do you think it really is? it's not so strange to maybe still be a virgin at my age but to be as inexperienced as I am is, well... downright embarrassing.

Also, How hard do you think it would be to find a girl in the same situation? I haven't completely given up on 3d I've just always figured it would be nearly impossible to find a girl like myself that isn't completely hideous or religious. Girls can admit they are inexperienced and guys will find that attractive whereas if I were to ever admit how inexperienced I am I get the feeling girls would be completely turned off and pity me.

I know this board already has enough insecure lonely people complaining about things but I figured I'd add my thoughts anyways, even if you don't reply thanks for reading.
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hmm... and my friends' just assumed that i must be gay
 

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I go to a nerd school where even drunken kissing is seen as a huge deal so they're pretty neutral towards people that haven't done anything... but dude seriously as if it matters if you're 20, it's better to wait and make a good experience out of it rather than find yourself in a shitty embarrassing situation. if you're 18... try going to clubs and stuff maybe? good way to meet people.. but srsly it doesn't matter how old you are even if some dickheads try to imply that that makes you pathetic.
 
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20 is pretty bad though
im super socially awkward and retarded and p ugly and i managed to kiss a few girls even if they were fat and or ugly
no excuses
 

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They either don't care, or comment on the fact that I'm still young.
 

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@Jimmy Recard
" i think there are girls out there that look for that
for example, me. I would not go for a guy that has kissed a girl before. I can't do it. So dont worry, y"


What

why
well i guess its for 3 reasons:
1) i am a really shy person
2) i tned to chicken out a lot because sometimes i feel as if i am not ready yet
3) i dont want it to be some stupid high school thing, i want it to be meaningless

@annabackwards thank you for the support/advice :)
 

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i dont think it really matters... just try to be comfortable with who you are :)
 

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@Jimmy Recard

well i guess its for 3 reasons:
1) i am a really shy person
2) i tned to chicken out a lot because sometimes i feel as if i am not ready yet
3) i dont want it to be some stupid high school thing, i want it to be meaningless

@annabackwards thank you for the support/advice :)
tomboys are not shy.
 

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