if you're looking to have a good holiday and your parents are going to make it worse, try gradually defuse the situation by going out more (out of sight, out of mind), for example the library with friends or stay in your room. don't remind them about things that will escalate their emotions
Yeah that's a good idea and personally I would like to do this but for me I feel like me constantly going out would make them more mad cause they would have to be constantly checking where I'd be going and would have to take me to these places
THAT'S THE PLANNNNNN
omg real. Like I never tell them about my problems or anything negative cause it will always end up as a lecture of things I shouldn't do and why it's wrong, etcTHAT'S THE PLANNNNNN
Already avoiding them- and since i was young i learnt how to avoid all topics that could possibly bring up any recollection of an event/ mistake so hopefully that wonderful life skill that developed through my childhood saves me until i get a decent mark.
That's so real though oms
ya gotta face ur parents eventually even if they think school marks are everything
no but actually like the other day I asked my mum whether or not she has tried malatang and it turned into a whole lecture about how I have to be careful with my allergies and I always have to ask the restaurant, etc. Like I literally asked a simple question that was just a yes or no question and it turned into a lecture
yeah life sucks like that
Yea i know- usually it is my mindset however i am really struggling to get over that aspect and have been for years- so ya
random question do u live near the T9
What's that
is it like a mode of transport or something (GAH I KNOW THAT SOUNDS STUPID BUT IDK)
The train linesWhat's that
train lineWhat's that
My name?
Real. Like I’ve been struggling with anxiety, low self esteem, depression since year 7 and even a bit in primary
i love how u can just hit like on the most depressing comments
real x 2- i hope you're doing alright and it isn't getting too much for you-
I feel like it’s gotten slightly better but now it’s getting worse at times. But it isn’t as bad as year 7 and 8. But like I just struggle with mental health for different reasons now
That's good! i swear the last 2 years of high school is gonna be an emotional roller-coaster at this point-
Yeah my anxiety will prob be at it’s worse but one of my term 2 resolutions are to stay positive, to not lose hope and to just remember that whatever happens, happens and is part of the process I guess
