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Whatnow

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Ok so i've got this problem and i thought i'd see if you guys could help me out.

I'm a 1st year Uni student, who has just met a bunch of new people. In fact, everyone here has no idea of what i was like before, so this is a fresh start for me i guess.

So a fair few girls are after me (something i'm not used to) and in particular there's one i like (and just about every other guy who's seen her). i'm also fairly sure she's interested in me.. It all sounds good right?

Well, not really.

the problem is well.....i have NO experience. i've never been in a relationship..i've never been kissed. i dont look or act like it. And everyone here believes the exact opposite to the truth (even my friends) and...i may have encouraged that thought a few times.

I have no idea on what the hell should i do. This girl is obviously very experienced and she (as well as everyone else) thinks so am i. If i go take the risk of asking her out, its going to become pretty obvious pretty quickly that 'im new to all this and i may just lose my chances...
 
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Whatnow said:
Ok so i've got this problem and i thought i'd see if you guys could help me out.

I'm a 1st year Uni student, who has just met a bunch of new people. In fact, everyone here has no idea of what i was like before, so this is a fresh start for me i guess.

So a fair few girls are after me (something i'm not used to) and in particular there's one i like (and just about every other guy who's seen her). i'm also fairly sure she's interested in me.. It all sounds good right?

Well, not really.

the problem is well.....i have NO experience. i've never been in a relationship..i've never been kissed. i dont look or act like it. And everyone here believes the exact opposite to the truth (even my friends) and...i may have encouraged that thought a few times.

I have no idea on what the hell should i do. This girl is obviously very experienced and she (as well as everyone else) thinks so am i. If i go take the risk of asking her out, its going to become pretty obvious pretty quickly that 'im new to all this and i may just lose my chances...
Practice on your sister imo.
 

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hes ASIAN

Lol......fuck that explains everything even the narcisitic nature of his opening post.
 
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Whatnow said:
So a fair few girls are after me (something i'm not used to) and in particular there's one i like (and just about every other guy who's seen her). i'm also fairly sure she's interested in me.. It all sounds good right?
Bullshit.

Whatnow said:
I have no idea on what the hell should i do.
It doesn't matter what you do, just do something.
 

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Whatnow said:
Ok so i've got this problem and i thought i'd see if you guys could help me out.

I'm a 1st year Uni student, who has just met a bunch of new people. In fact, everyone here has no idea of what i was like before, so this is a fresh start for me i guess.

So a fair few girls are after me (something i'm not used to) and in particular there's one i like (and just about every other guy who's seen her). i'm also fairly sure she's interested in me.. It all sounds good right?

Well, not really.

the problem is well.....i have NO experience. i've never been in a relationship..i've never been kissed. i dont look or act like it. And everyone here believes the exact opposite to the truth (even my friends) and...i may have encouraged that thought a few times.

I have no idea on what the hell should i do. This girl is obviously very experienced and she (as well as everyone else) thinks so am i. If i go take the risk of asking her out, its going to become pretty obvious pretty quickly that 'im new to all this and i may just lose my chances...

k.

So you appreantly have a lot of girls after you. Choose one and run with it :p
 

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Whatnow said:
So a fair few girls are after me (something i'm not used to) ...



What, are you The BOS ugly duckling that has just turned into a swan?


So all throughout high-school you've been getting no love and all of a sudden you're a stud?

Did Carson Kressley give you a make-over?


You know what to do , son....don't worry about what we think.
 
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keep talking to her until you're sure she likes you. no one cares if you're experienced or not.
 

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be open with her about your lack of experience, make jokes about it. don't be ashamed. in my first relationship i was clear with my boy that i was new to the whole experience and he respected that and thought no less of me. you would be surprised at how many people bluff about their experiences.


and to the dickheads who keep making racist comments about asians... you all make me sick to my stomach.
 
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Whatnow

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err some of you guys have me completely wrong here. Maybe i suck at explaining, let me give it another go :p

When i said "a fair few" i suppose thats all relative, i probably should've said more than i'm used to. Its more like just 3 or 4..

I'm part asian yeah, and i had one or two chances in high school but never went with it...partly because of my asianness, partly to my old-religious self (i'm way over that now) and also i guess i wasnt social when it cames to parties etc

so the obvious reply is that i should just man the fuck up and go try this out and be open about it... But thats pretty hard when it seems pretty much ingrained into all the people around me that i'm something else?? and changin it all now would change my relationship with them all (which i dont want)
 
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