Hello guys,
I just wanted to seek some advice (I’m not sure if BoS is the right forum to ask it in). I have always been a high-achiever, however, recently my attention has been consumed with a guy, and before I met him I always thought relationships during the HSC is not a good idea. He asked me out the other day and I said yes (because I like him). However, I have been unable to study because all I keep thinking about is him, even though I really need and want to study. My aim has always been and always will be to get a 99+ ATAR and get into medicine, and I know that I really want this, but I realised from current experience that it doesn’t make sense to be in a relationship and study at the same time. I don’t know what to do
I really want to study and ace the HSC, but I don’t want to break up with him either. Any advice?
For context, I go to a top-15 school and I am in Yr11.
I just wanted to seek some advice (I’m not sure if BoS is the right forum to ask it in). I have always been a high-achiever, however, recently my attention has been consumed with a guy, and before I met him I always thought relationships during the HSC is not a good idea. He asked me out the other day and I said yes (because I like him). However, I have been unable to study because all I keep thinking about is him, even though I really need and want to study. My aim has always been and always will be to get a 99+ ATAR and get into medicine, and I know that I really want this, but I realised from current experience that it doesn’t make sense to be in a relationship and study at the same time. I don’t know what to do

For context, I go to a top-15 school and I am in Yr11.