choices (2 Viewers)

[babydoll_]

ok i'm not saying relationships can't be both, but if you had a choice, which would you prefer and why?

 

[niteshade1312]

Why would you want a lifeless nothing relationship- something with raw emotions and actual feeling is more up my alley.

 

[Dreamerish*~]

Of course you can have both. I wouldn't really want one without the other.

With my boyfriend, we have a stable, serious relationship which is at times very romantic. But then again, sometimes when we're both in a bad mood we would blow up the smallest misunderstandings into huge arguments which end up in both of us realising how stupid we were, and we'd pretend it never happened.

If you look at them separately, the first one is much too boring, and the second option is like riding a rollercoaster to school every morning, which after awhile could make you want to jump off when it's at its highest.

 

[withoutaface]

Stable, but without the exclusion of romance/surprises every now and then.

 

[Epiphany]

gotta be passionate for me... the ups are worth the downs.

a quiet stable relationship... i wonder what they're like?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

I'm not mature enough to have a stable relationship and I wouldn't let an up and down relationship last because I did that before and it was a waste of time.

 

[azzie]

i always end up with the pasionate thing with lots of ups and downs
i hate the downs

 

[Shaynie69]

Meh, there are going to be ups and downs in every relationship no matter what you do there will be ups and downs. I like my ups and downs! Ok maybe not so much downs but the Downs always make your relationship stronger and the ups remind you how much you love your bf/gf, awwwww. So id rather have the ups and downs because you learn from things like that and face it, wouldnt it be boring without them? xoxo

 

[Frigid]

ok i'm not saying relationships can't be both, but if you had a choice, which would you prefer and why?

where's the no-relationship option nancy?

 

[santaslayer]

A)...with some spontaneous moments...

y do girls like drama so much?

 

[my sharona]

I choose B.
With every rock-bottom low, there would be an exhilarating, orgasmic high.

 

[Frigid]

y do girls like drama so much?

as was said in the other thread, they just fall in love with the most despicable people.

 

[this_girl]

I chose the 2nd one. I don't like 'boring' and the relationship being passionate and dramatic with lots of ups and downs can make things interesting.

 

[Alimoe_KG]

I choose B.
With every rock-bottom low, there would be an exhilarating, orgasmic high.

It's not all about sex

 

[neo o]

A stable relationship for the long term. "A passionate, dramatic relationships with lots of ups and downs" for anything more than a few weeks would just piss me off. I'm not quite sure why you'd want emotional baggage and ups and downs when you can either flit from person to person without having to put up with any tantrums or problems (who doesn't love free love?) and/or have a long term stable relationship.

It's not all about sex

No, sometimes it is.

 

[miss_b]

I want boringness more than ups and downs...

I want a relationship, i feel left out again...

 

[babydoll_]

I'd rather have stability, the lows are not worth the highs IMO

 

[lilkiwifruit]

I'd rather have the ups and downs because the first option seems too boring and i like to be surprised

 

[transcendent]

I choose number one cause that's the kinda person I am... generally.

 

[alby]

the first one is much too boring, and the second option is like riding a rollercoaster to school every morning, which after awhile could make you want to jump off when it's at its highest.

my point exactly!
but you cant have a successful r'ship without a bit of both - too much of #1 can get boring/monotonous, too much of #2 can just get too hard to handle
but i think i'd probably prefer #1..but with the passion, randomness and spontaneity of #2

I choose number one cause that's the kinda person I am... generally.

same, but i still like my extra bits...stable and quiet can get a bit boring