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there's this girl that when i see in real life makes every effort to start conversations and stuff and is interesting to be around and we actually have some really comfortable moments together whenever were alone. but online she's like totally non responsive and gives like replies which give u nothing to go on.

so now the question is whats the deal?
 

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a little lost said:
so now the question is whats the deal?
she doesn't like talking on a computer? :confused:

that's my guess. go ring her and see how she goes on the phone.
 

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there's this girl that when i see in real life makes every effort to start conversations and stuff and is interesting to be around and we actually have some really comfortable moments together whenever were alone. but online she's like totally non responsive and gives like replies which give u nothing to go on.

so now the question is whats the deal?
the intarweb is completely unreliable, hun... i wouldn't think much of her non-responsiveness, coz i'm like that sometimes on msn too...
 

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Just because she says 'hi' and doesn't type much, doesn't mean she isn't waving like a cheerleader on the other side of that internet conversation. Remember that.
 

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who the fuck cares, you sohuld be more apprehensive if it was the otherway round.
 
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Yeah I've come to the conclusion that the internet is in NO way an accurate representation of what anyone's thinking/feeling.
 
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yeah man... if you want something to happen, dont go about it on the net... no no no!
call her
 

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a little lost said:
there's this girl that when i see in real life makes every effort to start conversations and stuff and is interesting to be around and we actually have some really comfortable moments together whenever were alone. but online she's like totally non responsive and gives like replies which give u nothing to go on.

so now the question is whats the deal?
Yeah I know a chick just like that.. meh just deal with it, some people are like that *shrugs*
 

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Shuter said:
Yeah I've come to the conclusion that the internet is in NO way an accurate representation of what anyone's thinking/feeling.
so true...i find the worst thing when talking to people you dont know if they are being sarcastic or not or whether they are pissed with you or not...and what i dont like is when people use it as a "barrier" so they think they can do what they want like break up with someone over the net which i believe is soooooo ghey...now i am going to stop i am rambling :)
 

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a little lost said:
there's this girl that when i see in real life makes every effort to start conversations and stuff and is interesting to be around and we actually have some really comfortable moments together whenever were alone. but online she's like totally non responsive and gives like replies which give u nothing to go on.

so now the question is whats the deal?
She's probably masturbating to porn and is a little preoccupied, and hence doesn't want to talk over the internet.

Or, she actually doesn't like you, and in public acts the way she does because other people are around.
 

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a little lost said:
there's this girl that when i see in real life makes every effort to start conversations and stuff and is interesting to be around and we actually have some really comfortable moments together whenever were alone. but online she's like totally non responsive and gives like replies which give u nothing to go on.

so now the question is whats the deal?
oh my god I have the same problem. Its probably that she is busy online. With the girl I know is she talks to all her friends overseas.
 

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use webcam. that way you'll be able to know exactly what she's doing.

:uhhuh:
 

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JGreenwood said:
oh my god I have the same problem. Its probably that she is busy online. With the girl I know is she talks to all her friends overseas.
yeah i talk to all my overseas friends on msn. it's not like i can call them all. but i'm still not cybercow to my friends over here
 

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definately have the use of a webcam. just think of american pie and you get your answer dude.

booyeh!

however, then you have to think that soem people can communicate better in words rather than in real life. i am like that. though i sometimes might not show it. i am both more aprehensive and comprehensive when i put things in words.
 

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She's probably got a million and one people talking to her when shes online... theres always someone that has alot to say :) Like some other people said, you should be more worried when she starts to get like that in talking in person...
 

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just confront her 1-1 and ask her how she really feels about you, if she rejects then... she rejects you
 

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some ppl talk better in person (aka they are not phone or internet ppl)
others talk better either on the phone or on tha net

i know how she feels...sometimes its hard to talk properly on the net...you just don't know how the other person is reacting
 

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a little lost said:
there's this girl that when i see in real life makes every effort to start conversations and stuff and is interesting to be around and we actually have some really comfortable moments together whenever were alone. but online she's like totally non responsive and gives like replies which give u nothing to go on.

so now the question is whats the deal?

simple.....

its just easier to ignore u on the net and dont reply

coz it would b obvious if she ignores u in real life

its not ur fault ur boring and she doesnt like u
 

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