Schroedinger said:
She's going to f*** you over totally, break your heart and wander off with this other dude.
Stab her in the back first to lay down the foundations of the ground. If she feels that she can't have you or she's challenged for your attention, she'll work harder and pay less attention to the other guy.
Go hook up with a few random chicks at parties and lay down the law.
Unfortunately have to agree with the bold.
Anyone in a similar situation ,
take note.
Don't let the feelings
you have obscure your comprehension of the other person's feelings.
Girls out there...it is nice to be adored by an enraptured male but dont dont dont dont lead them on. It ISN'T worth it It's so cruel , you'll feel awful for a very long time when you finally have the courage/ character to tell the guy you aren't and never were serious/interested at all.
I've messed up that way before and I was SO ashamed. I still am , in a way