friend thinks i want more (3 Viewers)

[thejosiekiller]

ah ill be gutless and see how thing are when i get back next term

 

[nicksta_40]

Tell her she's paying for her ticket - that'll immediately inform her that it's not a date
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If u ask some1 to ur formal, its quite well known that ur asking them as ur guest, therefore u automatically pay for their ticket...

 

[dastonecutters]

thanks for the advice everyone....

cvr, disproportional, wesal.... lol... private jokes

 

[lengstar]

screw it, i've been in this position and ended up asking someone else

 

[Persephone87]

Um, I'd prefer to go solo than ask someone who wasn't quite interested in me, because if you invite someone, it is only polite for you to pay for their ticket too...and thats a bit to fork out...

 

[_muse_]

Um, I'd prefer to go solo than ask someone who wasn't quite interested in me, because if you invite someone, it is only polite for you to pay for their ticket too...and thats a bit to fork out...

When i asked my best friend to go with me... i didnt pay for his ticket... i guess that makes me a bit of a loser. But i suppose you dont necessarily have to pay for the other persons ticket...?!?!

as for an answer to the question of the thread: just talk to her! surely she wont run away when u politely say you wanted to only go as friends.

 

[melbieborn.gurl]

fly solo ...try n patch things up with the chick and try to remain friends with her..you gotta talk it out with her and make sure she understands what you meant ..without being forcefull or anything of course ...the grad will b fun anywyays even if shes not there ..im sure uve got a whole heap of gr8 friends wholl make it fun so yeh if u patch things up with her and become friends again mayb shell go with u as a friend ...but just chill about it and fly solo ...lol sorry bout the jibberish but yeh y'kno

 

[AsyLum]

screw it, i've been in this position and ended up asking someone else

See i give REAL WORLD advice

 

[~*HSC 4 life*~]

you can always take me

 

[steph@nie]

I don't see why she immediately assumes you want something more. Thats the stupid bit if you ask me.

 

[olay]

are you really set on asking her? if u weren't maybe you could just ask someone else... because i'm sure with time it'd become clear what your intentions were, in terms of asking her to the formal just as friends...but perhaps not if you ask her again. and did u find out why she said no???

 

[dastonecutters]

well ther is another girl i would like to go with AS a FRIEND nothing more like i see her as a sis but she wouldnt go with me either i rekon

 

[Jago]

okay seriously, why do you feel the need to go with someone? Go solo, enjoy the night. People aren't going to think less of you if you go alone.

 

[super katie]

okay seriously, why do you feel the need to go with someone? Go solo, enjoy the night. People aren't going to think less of you if you go alone.

I agree, I went solo to my year ten formal and it was fantastic because i didnt have to worry about a partner and if he was having a good time or not. Much less stress all round

 

[slinky]

why go solo, jus go wit yor other friends who also dont hav dates.

 

[Sarah168]

Do all your friends have "dates" fo the formal or something? Is that why you feel the need to bring someone?

 

[dastonecutters]

yeh most of them are organised

 

[nick1048]

yer it's kind a touchy situation however u gotta sorta smooth things over with her before askin her to the formal again... Who noes, she may get a date

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

never went to a formal with anyone, if u didnt have a gf, u didnt bring someone, its just weird

 

[steph@nie]

Yeh, but if all your friends are taking someone and you're not, its kinda hard. I can so see myself in that situation in a few months...