Friends of the opposite sex (1 Viewer)

[gigglinJess]

Is it possible to maintain a strong friendship with a person of the other sex, while never thinking about them in a sexual way?

Discuss

 

[Pacchiru]

yes.

 

[gigglinJess]

And can that friendship last if it becomes sexual?

 

[Pacchiru]

umm, confessing will make your relationship awkward if he/she doesn't feel the same way.

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

for me, history says, lol.
all of my guy friendships have at some point been sexual.

my very very best guy friend was the guy i lost my virginity to, so.

 

[gigglinJess]

for me, history says, lol.
all of my guy friendships have at some point been sexual.

my very very best guy friend was the guy i lost my virginity to, so.

But were you friends before the sexual part? Or did you become friends after?

 

[honeyissweet25]

i think it gets a little complicated an awkward after it gets sexual, but only if you let it. i think if both people talk about it and establish whats going to happen after there 'fling' has ended i think it still has great potentials for a great lasting friendship

 

[Nebuchanezzar]

Is it possible to maintain a strong friendship with a person of the other sex, while never thinking about them in a sexual way?

Discuss

no.

stop being a slut

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

But were you friends before the sexual part? Or did you become friends after?

with this guy, my bestie, before the fucking we were really close. to be honest the sex probably brought us closer. we kinda realised a relationship was dirty water for us, but the sex was good and it went on until I got a steady boyfriend. that way it wasnt like our friendship had to change drastically, we just didnt fuck on a whim.

alot of the others, after.

 

[xONBROKENWINGSx]

with this guy, my bestie, before the fucking we were really close. to be honest the sex probably brought us closer. we kinda realised a relationship was dirty water for us, but the sex was good and it went on until I got a steady boyfriend. that way it wasnt like our friendship had to change drastically, we just didnt fuck on a whim.

alot of the others, after.

you sound slurry. Number please

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

not really. well, i dont feel slutty, and no one i know irl calls me a slut o.o

i didnt fuck all of the others, alot of it was phone sex, mutual masturbation and the occasional oral experience.

 

[Miffstaa]

Is it possible to maintain a strong friendship with a person of the other sex, while never thinking about them in a sexual way?

Discuss

no definitely not.
every single time the hugs will get a little bit longer and the hands will travel a little further south.

 

[Nebuchanezzar]

with this guy, my bestie, before the fucking we were really close. to be honest the sex probably brought us closer. we kinda realised a relationship was dirty water for us, but the sex was good and it went on until I got a steady boyfriend. that way it wasnt like our friendship had to change drastically, we just didnt fuck on a whim.

alot of the others, after.

so it was like
"ill take you until another comes around"

morally vacuous whore

 

[Terlob]

the occasional oral experience.

lol.

 

[Miffstaa]

so it was like
"ill take you until another comes around"

morally vacuous whore

is that your catch phrase?

 

[Nebuchanezzar]

yes

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

so it was like
"ill take you until another comes around"

morally vacuous whore

not really.
it was more like, "i love you and youre my best friend. im a virgin and im curious. teach me." because im weird like that i suppose
and then once that was over it was like "it feels good, its just another form of closeness".

i mean. the two of us slept naked or close to for years with out it ever being weird. we've always been super close, sex was just a natural progression

didnt hurt either one of us when i got a boyfriend, or when he got a girlfriend, because it was never more than our normal friendship.


although, i did that catch phrase.

 

[Miffstaa]

yes

i got called it three times!
nice!!!!

 

[adnan91]

not really.
it was more like, "i love you and youre my best friend. im a virgin and im curious. teach me." because im weird like that i suppose
and then once that was over it was like "it feels good, its just another form of closeness".

i mean. the two of us slept naked or close to for years with out it ever being weird. we've always been super close, sex was just a natural progression

didnt hurt either one of us when i got a boyfriend, or when he got a girlfriend, because it was never more than our normal friendship.


although, i did that catch phrase.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[sonyaleeisapixi]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

huhwhat?