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Riet

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Sif sexually active people don't get checked every now and then when they are at the doctor's anyway?
 

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Or dump her. What you are suggesting is entirely reasonable. Continuing your car metaphor Kwayera, you wouldn't buy a used car without having a look under the bonnet, would you?
i second that.
the fact your the "guy" and giving about std's surprises me.
usually its the other way around..
 

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the reason for her suggestion of unprotected sex is that she wants you to go down with her
 

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Insist on the STD test for both of you.
This.

When you engage in unprotected sex you're not only trusting your partner but every single person both of you have been with and everyone they've been with and so on. Insist on the test, it's the adult thing to do and if she's bratty enough to try to force you into doing a sexual act you don't want to the possible detriment of your health and hers then she's not worth the time of day. Safety and sanity first. Sex comes second.
 

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The obvious answer is to take her blood without her knowing and have her tested. Duh.
 

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Someone has to say it..."what a silly girl"
QFT.

Just tell her that it's better to be safe than sorry, that if she doesn't want to do it you're still getting tested anyways and if she still won't do it, then insist on condoms.

Side note: what a silly girl.
Yeah. I did =]
 

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Do you trust her to take the pill reliably? Do you trust her with your life? You're increasing your risk of conception, if the unexpected does happen, do you know what she plans to do about it?
 

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Alternatively, you can just not have unprotected sex.

Zing.
 

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Like Graney said, do you trust her to take the pill all the time?

She wont do an STD test, as if shes going to take the pill all the time.

She wants your seed/child support
 

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Having sex (protected or unprotected) outside of the confines of marriage is blatantly wrong.

I would stop having sex with your girlfriend full stop!!!

I wouldn't worry about whether you are using a condom or not, it does not make any difference morality wise whether premarital sex takes place with or without a condom.
 

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Having sex (protected or unprotected) outside of the confines of marriage is blatantly wrong.

I would stop having sex with your girlfriend full stop!!!

I wouldn't worry about whether you are using a condom or not, it does not make any difference morality wise whether premarital sex takes place with or without a condom.
You tell him, moral crusader!
 

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