Girls, what do you think of boys who cry? (4 Viewers)

[williamc]

i like it when a guy really shows how he's feeling... for sure!
like i'd prefer a guy to cry and let me be there for him in his time of need, rather than him being all quiet.
Aren't we always told to "be yourself" ... well i guess that's what im saying... if u need to cry let it out...
there's nothing wrong with a little water works session

Your looking for a "SNAG" (sensitive new age guy.) Or a homo turn hetero

 

[williamc]

What about crying during a movie? Say at the end of Lord of the Rings - not saying that *I* personally did...well maybe 1 or two tears....

Try and hide it lol..

 

[*yooneek*]

Your looking for a "SNAG" (sensitive new age guy.) Or a homo turn hetero

lol am i?

as long as he's a man who looooves me ... *shrugs shoulders*

 

[iamsickofyear12]

What about crying during a movie? Say at the end of Lord of the Rings - not saying that *I* personally did...well maybe 1 or two tears....

That is definitely not ok... in fact that is probably one of the worst things to be crying over.

 

[Serius]

I am part Chopper Reid, so ive never cried because i am a tough cunt. Seriously though, ive cried [about serious shit] but never in public. I always feel like i have to be strong for everyone else, like if everyone is falling to peices around me and then i start crying[the dude who is always strong and never has anything get to him] then its like it makes the situation seem alot worse than it is. Kinda shit cause sometimes in bad situations i just feel like crying but then i cant.

I guess guys usually show their emotions in different ways, i know i tend to show mine in actions and sometimes words like my family knows if i say i am in pain then they should probably take me to hospital[massively high pain threshold] otherwise i might die soon lol.

Crying does do anything though, even when i am by myself i would much rather just try and solve the problem rather than cry about it.

 

[Serius]

That is definitely not ok... in fact that is probably one of the worst things to be crying over.

I beleive tuckermax said it was ok to cry during some movies [difinetely not LOTR]

stuff like military movies where its all about friendship and then someone dies[i.e saving private ryan]
movies where young girls die if you are a father[ err the generals daughter, the green mile....]

I nearly cried during the green mile, i maybe let slip about 1/2 a tear towards the end when he was all facing his death brave like.

 

[*yooneek*]

I always feel like i have to be strong for everyone else, like if everyone is falling to peices around me and then i start crying[the dude who is always strong and never has anything get to him] then its like it makes the situation seem alot worse than it is. Kinda shit cause sometimes in bad situations i just feel like crying but then i cant.

that's really nice of you
:wave:

 

[Seryn]

That is definitely not ok... in fact that is probably one of the worst things to be crying over.

What can I say - I'm a pretty passionate geek when it comes to some things That particular example was only half serious though. There are plenty other movies (as already mentioned) where it would be more appropriate to have a bit of a sniffle.
Though, in general I usually end up being waaay too sensitive for my own good

 

[ObjectsInSpace]

I beleive tuckermax said it was ok to cry during some movies [difinetely not LOTR]

stuff like military movies where its all about friendship and then someone dies[i.e saving private ryan]
movies where young girls die if you are a father[ err the generals daughter, the green mile....]

I nearly cried during the green mile, i maybe let slip about 1/2 a tear towards the end when he was all facing his death brave like.

Would you care to re-think your "part Chopper Reid" statement, then?

Better part Chopper Reid than part Le Chiffre, though. I won't consider myself to be in trouble until I start weeping blood.

 

[*yooneek*]

What can I say - I'm a pretty passionate geek when it comes to some things
And I usually end up being waaay too sensitive for my own good

pfff be who you are...you'll find the right girl for urself...

 

[iamsickofyear12]

I beleive tuckermax said it was ok to cry during some movies [difinetely not LOTR]

stuff like military movies where its all about friendship and then someone dies[i.e saving private ryan]
movies where young girls die if you are a father[ err the generals daughter, the green mile....]

I nearly cried during the green mile, i maybe let slip about 1/2 a tear towards the end when he was all facing his death brave like.

You have to remember that it is just acting... guys should not be crying over acting.

 

[*yooneek*]

You have to remember that it is just acting... guys should not be crying over acting.

lol since when?
everyone has their moments...so what?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

lol since when?
everyone has their moments...so what?

Since always.
It's some random reading from a script. Crying over that is pathetic.

 

[*yooneek*]

Since always.
It's some random reading from a script. Crying over that is pathetic.

well i shall take you to see bambi... then we will see if you still hold these views of yours

 

[Seryn]

You have to remember that it is just acting... guys should not be crying over acting.

I believe its called empathy...

 

[iamsickofyear12]

well i shall take you to see bambi... then we will see if you still hold these views of yours

I might have seen it... I know what happens and I wouldn't cry over it.

 

[iamsickofyear12]

I believe its called empathy...

That doesn't make crying ok.

 

[*yooneek*]

I might have seen it... I know what happens and I wouldn't cry over it.

are u sure you are human? lol jkz

 

[circusmind]

lol since when?
everyone has their moments...so what?

Yeah....but crying is pretty much the biggest show of vulnerability and weakness a human being can make, so it's fairly piss-poor performance to let rip with that sort of display over fictional entertainment.

Edit: I'm not trying to be a jackass with the 'weakness' thing.

 

[*yooneek*]

Yeah....but crying is pretty much the biggest show of vulnerability and weakness a human being can make, so it's fairly piss-poor performance to let rip with that sort of display over fictional entertainment.

Edit: I'm not trying to be a jackass with the 'weakness' thing.

yeah i get you...
but sometimes you relate a seemingly 'fictional' performance to an experience you personally had... is it ok to be emotional then?