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[jumb]

Haha! i love reading those girly-magazine articles.

There is one thing im not too sure about.

2. ask what she likes.
- honest and inviting works best with sex chat. try, "i'd love to go down on you, but am worried i won't get it right., can u give me some pointers?" dont laugh if she responds with instructions, diagrams and a powerpoint demonstration. this is vital info, u should be taking notes!

Doesnt this show a lack of confidence, which would be a turn off for girls?

 

[twisted_sista00]

Doesnt this show a lack of confidence, which would be a turn off for girls?

nope, theres nothing a chick loves more than to know that her guy wants to please her, the way she wants. it means he really does care, and hes not scared to look as though he has room for improvement...that hes willing to throw away his pride for her.

 

[MissGeorgie]

exactly! she gets EXACTLY wat she wants, and everyone's happy!!

 

[bubz :D]

no it won't be a turn off... unless of course he went on about how he was mr orgasm expert or something.... because i'm sure most guys can improve in some way

 

[AsyLum]

no it won't be a turn off... unless of course he went on about how he was mr orgasm expert or something.... because i'm sure most guys can improve in some way

keep thinking that

 

[Meh....]

bjs intimate wat the?

Id do whatever was needed for the girl to have a good time, id go down there no problem

and for a girl to make a bj more intimate, looking up at the guy helps

i dont think there is any girl taht thinks a bj is intimate its fact of life you suck it make it hard and let it blow then its ovr its a quick thing that is overarted there is no possible way to make it intimate looking up makes the guy thinkyour enjoying yourself lol
on the other hand being eatin out is a long and tedious process that should be taken with care thanks

 

[pc_wizz]

i dont think there is any girl taht thinks a bj is intimate its fact of life you suck it make it hard and let it blow then its ovr its a quick thing that is overarted there is no possible way to make it intimate looking up makes the guy thinkyour enjoying yourself lol
on the other hand being eatin out is a long and tedious process that should be taken with care thanks

that is kinof true, girls like being taken care of, however guys would really appreciate it if they look up, it gives us a sign that u are having fun down there,

 

[hipsta_jess]

i think any sex act has at least some degree of intimacy!!

 

[pc_wizz]

either that or complete lust ... ... but in lust u still must have some feelings ...

 

[hipsta_jess]

either that or complete lust ... ... but in lust u still must have some feelings ...

even if their purely hormonal!!

 

[pc_wizz]

yup ... ...

even though you dont want to admit it

 

[bubz :D]

what? You mean there are girls out there who dont like their clit being sucked on :\

there are. one of my best friends is soooo self concious of it. but then she went and got a brazilian, and i was like wtf

 

[pc_wizz]

btw ...do the girls here like if if theit bf gives them eye contact while going down on them

hemi dun let me move

so i just keep busy

 

[paper cup]

you know, one of my friends came on this site on fri and was like...omg...*my name* do you actually READ the threads people post on this forum.

Really intelligent stimulating stuff.

Perhaps a bad choice of words, but nevertheless.

Just commenting.

 

[AsyLum]

Rofl. You should tell them "OMG....*name* YES I DO KEKEKKE"

 

[GemmaHavok]

Eye contact should always be present when a girl goes down on a guy. Girls should also tie their hair back, a guy should always see everything that's going on. No matter what, always smile
I don't think it's intimate at all, but who cares.
Girls can kiss guys after giving head unless they've had the cum in their mouth. Guys should avoid it at all times, girls think cunt smell fucking stinks, it's not so much taste as smell in this situation.
Steph@nie... I'm amazed you're such a BJ expert... Do we have Ben Lai to thank for this? I think someone's hand symbol is changing... you can have mine.. just 10 times smaller...lol
A lot of girls down like getting head because unlike boys, we don't all look at each others cunts. It's a paranoia thing. Plus, the hair thing is always an issue...
And as for spit or swallow... If you can handle it, swallow, it saves on cleaning and the guy usually loves it. But if you have the urge to hurl as soon as you taste it, try to avoid it.
I think BJ's should be done as part of foreplay. It means the spit or swallow issue isn't a problem, plus, it gives sexual gratification to only one person... but if you must...
GO the 69! all the way...

 

[MissGeorgie]

haha, yeh i agree with Gemma on the "bj's as foreplay", but i also very much enjoy 69 soooo good!!

 

[GemmaHavok]

The 69 is the greatest thing ever invented, whoever did it deserves an award.

 

[gooody gooody]

ewww that is soo gross.....and very unhygienic wen u think about it...

i only enjoy a guy going down on me if he knows exactly wat hes doing otherwise fingers can do the job much better

 

[bubz :D]

one girl i went down on once was really bad - one ytouch with the tongue and i gagged.
however my current gf is nice and clean

p.s. kinda relevant to this topic, i suggest everyone here has a listen to the song 2D2F by Avenue D.

hm you mean the taste or the smell? a lot of the time girls can't help it. especially if she was doing sport beforehand or something