going for older guys/girls (3 Viewers)

[lengstar]

Just because they can hold their side of a debate on religion and/or politics does not neccessarily mean they are mature.

 

[Shuter]

The fact we were discussing it in the first place does.

 

[lengstar]

Yeah a level of maturity, but overall the person may not be 'deemed' mature, like myself.

 

[Shuter]

Well, they were mature guys anyway.

Anyhow, I often find myself dumbing down my conversation alot. Maybe this makes me seem abit immature (and I purposely do immature things sometimes just for a bit of fun), but if I actually talked how I normally would I think many of my friends (alot fo the girls) would be like "wtf" and I'd have to explain every second word to them. I have enough trouble as it is.

 

[lengstar]

Its not the conversation you hold its your behaviour that states whether you are mature or not.

 

[Shuter]

Conversation is one of the main elements of behaviour... besides physical actions but they don't really differ that much...

 

[Agnes2810]

Its not the conversation you hold its your behaviour that states whether you are mature or not.

but more often then not...

 

[_Amie_]

Yeah unless the guy is just after sex, then chances are he'll want someone who can actually hold a conversation. Sure, younger girls can do that, in which case, the relationship may work out. Conversation is a measure of maturity, definately

 

[Not-That-Bright]

stfu marry some old saggy balled guy if u want u little tarts.
the end.

 

[deviant2004]

i rkn the guy should never be younger than the missus otherwise u get issues + problems everywhere + anywhere and it just isn't worth ure time.

However the chick can be maximum about 2 years younger than the guy. Anything lower gets a pit perverted... lol

 

[_Amie_]

Maybe, but what happens if you fall in love with someone more than 2 years younger? Are you just going to miss out on that amazing experience because of some restriction that society has placed upon the idea of older partners?

 

[deviant2004]

nuh of course love comes first.. but im just saying 4 the long term outlook, being the chick + older = problems.

 

[BrenKHS]

nuh of course love comes first.. but im just saying 4 the long term outlook, being the chick + older = problems.

That doesn't make any sense. Just because the social norm for a girl is to go out with an older guy doesnt mean that they will have problems if they go out with a younger guy.

Whats with the strict rules applying to relationships ?

If two people like each other, THEY LIKE EACH OTHER. Its simple.

 

[hiphophorray123]

in my opinion, people should aim to stick to their age its better, but love is more important than age....though 10 year age gaps are a bit fucked

 

[veridis]

how old is the puppy if you dont mind me asking?

 

[thejosiekiller]

he ate the puppy

 

[im_a_choobie]

I had a big crush on my year 10 maths teacher once... I was always like, how old are you sir?! and he'd lie and say he had a wife and kids to get rid of me... He looked about 25 to me, maybe he wasnt lying but he just looked too sexy!

poor you, every maths lesson must have been painnnnn

i bet you his lying, he wouldnt waste his hotness on a marriage. probably out pimping it up lol

 

[mmm_sofay]

i once had a really attractive sceince teacher. i had him for a term and for that whole term i sat up the back of class staring at him. he was so attractive. i dont find him attractive anymore. well he wasnt attractive last time i saw him. he is also a musician. he is a drummer in a band. kinda kinky . . .

 

[Raiks]

Well there was a 3 year and 7 month gap between myself and Felicity, and she was the elder, and it wasn't ever an issue... I think there's too much focus on age in determining things instead of just seeing what a relationship is like with the other person. I think the only time age should be considered is when you're looking at the legal side of things.

 

[sladehk]

As long as you are comfortable with the person, age shoudl not be a factor unless it is ghastly unappropiate (a 20yr guy with a granny)