how do u know if you're gay/bi? (1 Viewer)

[ahen]

was just wondering, how do u know if you're gay/lesbian/ bisexual? cos i hear a lot of people "just know" but then a lot of people seem to discover it later on.
my main question is how do u know if you're bi? that's gotta be hard, to distinguish between a friend and a crush? i dunno am just curious and rambling random questions...

 

[Frigid]

i think orientation is only relevant when you sexually interact with other persons. in other words, do you like fucking boys exclusively, or girls exclusively, or a bit of both?

thus answers your question.

 

[robo-andie]

Personally, I wouldn't be thinking about it. Afterall it's just another label, another pointless label which only allows people to identify particularly private things about you (or atleast assume).

Just do what you feel is right at the time, and everything will be cool.
If however, you simply MUST make an absolute decision, I would take Frigids advice. Play the field, see what suits you best.

 

[Wolfowitz]

Ur probably a tranny.

Go get the op.

 

[stazi]

I think that's quite common - you may be bi, but you could also be straight. You say that it's emotional at first with girls, thus the feelings could easily be more friendship-based. I 'love' my friends. When you say physical, do you mean that you wish to lesbian-secks them, or start finding them attractive. If the latter, I don't think that's very wierd for girls.

 

[azzie]

well maybe you swing both ways?
i guess the easiest way to find out is to experiment. then you'll know for sure if you like kissing just girls or just boys or both.

 

[azzie]

Azzie's volunteering.

but i like a boy.

 

[azzie]

Don't be bashful, just put your teaching hat on and frolic with ahen in the garden of earthly delights.

you do realise i have never actually kissed a girl before....

 

[Skeeta]

You dont need a label to identify yourself with

if you feel like you want a boy one day, have a boy one day

if you feel like you want a girl one day, have a girl one day

if your confusion is about the label/stereotype rather than the emotions associated (which you obvioiusly know about since you say you love ur best friend) then its not a problem. Take it slowly if you like a female you like, let them know your emotions and you shouldnt have a problem.

i'd say most people would understand

 

[robo-andie]

You dont need a label to identify yourself with

if you feel like you want a boy one day, have a boy one day

if you feel like you want a girl one day, have a girl one day

I like how you think....

 

[RabbitRabbit]

its probable your brain is just lookig for affection

 

[littlewing69]

You may have caught teh ghey. Seek medical advice immediately to rectify this situation.

PS: the real advice given above by other people was good. just go with how you feel. Also, thinking someone is attractive =! wanting to sleep with that person.

 

[Ollz San]

keep in mind no one's making you choose one gender over another.
there is no need to rush into things and strictly decide whether you're into boys or girls.
you could be into both...

if you happen to "experiment" on a lesbian, let her know your situation and what you're doing etc.
we don't like it when straight girls treat us like specimen for experimentation ^_^

but then, you could always experiment with azzie...

 

[what971]

Are you sure you're not just overstating things? For eg, I appreciate good looking people from both genders, but I'm definately not bi.

EDIT: or Lesbian...

 

[Nesty]

if you would go out with only guys, you're straight

if you would go out with guys and girls, you're bi

it's simple really.. and yeah experiment - best way

 

[Wolfowitz]

YEAH YOURE AF UCKWITT
you suck
go lube up for daddy.

i bone up for damage inc but i'm not a fucking gahy. suck a royaler bitchhole.

 

[hyparzero]

YEAH YOURE AF UCKWITT
you suck
go lube up for daddy.

i bone up for damage inc but i'm not a fucking gahy. suck a royaler bitchhole.

Here is a fine example of a homosexual haemafrodite rambling incoherently about his life with his daddy.

 

[55078]

hermaphrodite

 

[ariande]

I wouldn't worry about it too much, maybe you're still finding who you are?

If you want to expriment on Azzie [seriously it's about time you hook up with a girl. All good looking girls should] then make sure to tape it.

 

[mr_brightside]

[seriously it's about time you hook up with a girl. All good looking girls should]

ariande, you give the best adivce ever.