ok i see what you're saying, you won't dump them because they're religious but you prefer they aren't, because of, what i see as bad experiences with other girls. i personally don't know anyone who is like the following:Asquithian said:that's not POSITIVE/proactive discrimination...i dont decide to suddently not like someone because they are religious...i have gone out with girls who have strong religious beliefs...all of them seem concerned about themselves, upholding their 'values' out of fear of 'something' so they can get THEMSELVES into heaven...i know a few religious girls who are not like this but there aint that many of them...
ie if my parner happened to have religious belief i wouldnt go 'omg i cant be with you anymore...' more like lets talk about it OPENLY without shying away from the issues, logic and rationality ...
as for discrimination a strongly religious person probably would love god more than me (if in a relationship with me)...sad...thats not a decision based on positive outright discrimination but rather on the results of such a belief...
its even worst...in the example of sports girl...when she actually likes the person but THEN finds out he is of the unacceptable background or religion, thats positive discrimination based on RELIGION ALONE
Definitly not. I am the result of an Asian and Caucasian couple, who have been happily married for 22 years. As some one said, love is love not matter what colour you are.coroneos said:hmm but dont u think if u are asian that ure relationship will be stronger and will last longer if u dont go for caucasians? im not being racist or anything...
as i said, you have a narrow view of religion, you have taken the extremists and blown them to be religion as a whole. i am not arguing this any further because it always goes around in circles but be prepared to realise the above is not what religion is about, it's simply what you personally think religion is about. end of argument.Asquithian said:depends who do you love more? God or people in the real world?
I see alot of the religious rehtoric as self obsessive and extremely individualist, in line with what we would call neo conservatism ...or neo christian...neo capitalist...
Where you can screw people and earn $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ at the expence of others while still upholding the moral values of a day when capitalism and the dollar was not the most important thing ever
the example is ross Cameron...MP for Parramatta...neo conservative liberty, and strongly religious...was one of sydney's top litigation lawyers...now the offices of litigation lawyers are not places of joy, happiness and alturism...he makes $$$$$$$$$ and comes home as a man of god after tourturing people and destroying their livelyhood...
in otherwords the modern idea of christianity doesnt mind if you are greedy or self obsessed or consumerist valuing 'things' above everthing... even the mainstream religious groups at uni preach inward values rather than outward values...how you should act as an individual rather than how you should treat everyone else...THATS disturbing...
and why align yourself to this...?
me three!Sickle said:Definitly not. I am the result of an Asian and Caucasian couple, who have been happily married for 22 years. As some one said, love is love not matter what colour you are.
I'll pass on marriage for now but i agree with the gist of what your sayingMinai said:I am also gonna marry an Asian, love trancends race, colour, religion and all those other artificial boundaries
isnt that being racist by automatically discounting caucasion, african, etc?Minai said:me three!
I am also gonna marry an Asian, love trancends race, colour, religion and all those other artificial boundaries
lol best contradiction ever - that's going in the signature.Minai said:me three!
I am also gonna marry an Asian, love trancends race, colour, religion and all those other artificial boundaries
meshy said:lol best contradiction ever - that's going in the signature.
Love transcends race colour etc.
I'm gonna marry an asian.
lol, you're an idiotmeshy said:lol best contradiction ever - that's going in the signature.
Love transcends race colour etc.
I'm gonna marry an asian.