Is this girl losing interest in me? (1 Viewer)

T

the_one_1

Member
Joined
May 22, 2013
Messages
227
Gender
Male
HSC
2013
procrastinator2 said:
no-one knows what she is thinking! only she does and if you want real good advice ... ask her
Click to expand...
Only she does...

Well... now i'm questioning why she asked me how many children I want in the future and after without me asking she said how many children she wanted...

I know the signs. I'm just wanting to make sure before doing anything.

All of this would not have happened if I didn't ask out the previous girl I liked :(

also i'm a really shy guy.

If you want to help me a bit with the signs she is showing of liking me are on the first post...

http://community.boredofstudies.org/showthread.php?t=307125&p=6372574&viewfull=1#post6372574
 
procrastinator2

procrastinator2

Member
Joined
Sep 13, 2012
Messages
193
Location
Hell
Gender
Female
HSC
2013
the_one_1 said:
Only she does...

Well... now i'm questioning why she asked me how many children I want in the future and after without me asking she said how many children she wanted...

I know the signs. I'm just wanting to make sure before doing anything.

All of this would not have happened if I didn't ask out the previous girl I liked :(

also i'm a really shy guy.

If you want to help me a bit with the signs she is showing of liking me are on the first post...

http://community.boredofstudies.org/showthread.php?t=307125&p=6372574&viewfull=1#post6372574
Click to expand...
why dont you let her come to you? before me and my bf got together i did some things he didn't like and it made me realise how much he cared about me and I didn't want to lose someone that for once cared about me and loved me for me so I pretty much asked him out hahah
 
T

the_one_1

Member
Joined
May 22, 2013
Messages
227
Gender
Male
HSC
2013
procrastinator2 said:
why dont you let her come to you? before me and my bf got together i did some things he didn't like and it made me realise how much he cared about me and I didn't want to lose someone that for once cared about me and loved me for me so I pretty much asked him out hahah
Click to expand...
So technically like this

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.
Click to expand...
 
procrastinator2

procrastinator2

Member
Joined
Sep 13, 2012
Messages
193
Location
Hell
Gender
Female
HSC
2013
omg not physically come to you -.- i mean over time let her get to know you let her show you a side of her, emotionally. These things take time stop rushing into things thats how you make mistakes and stop caring so much about it!! loosen up :L
 
T

the_one_1

Member
Joined
May 22, 2013
Messages
227
Gender
Male
HSC
2013
procrastinator2 said:
omg not physically come to you -.- i mean over time let her get to know you let her show you a side of her, emotionally. These things take time stop rushing into things thats how you make mistakes and stop caring so much about it!! loosen up :L
Click to expand...
She knows quite a lot about me already though...

Otherwise I have given up... AGAIN :(
 
Last edited:
procrastinator2

procrastinator2

Member
Joined
Sep 13, 2012
Messages
193
Location
Hell
Gender
Female
HSC
2013
i cant emphasise this enough ... a) it takes time b) let it all play out c) stop being clingy d) reeeelllaaaaaxxxx listen to some wiz khalifa
 
T

the_one_1

Member
Joined
May 22, 2013
Messages
227
Gender
Male
HSC
2013
procrastinator2 said:
i cant emphasise this enough ... a) it takes time b) let it all play out c) stop being clingy d) reeeelllaaaaaxxxx listen to some wiz khalifa
Click to expand...
thats why I'm going to ask her out after the trials. Just act like the girl I had asked out and was lied too didn't even happen.

Either that or forget about it all together complete my HSC and be a loner once i've left High School.


I currently see my self as this guy...
 
spatula232

spatula232

Active Member
Joined
Jul 18, 2013
Messages
348
Location
Mars One
Gender
Male
HSC
2015
the_one_1 said:
If I was meant to watch videos to try to get a girlfriend. I won't, watched these. Its a complete joke...



I just act myself. That way girls will like me for who i am. Thats what i've learnt thats what I will do...
Click to expand...
If you've learnt, why are you still asking things.
 
T

the_one_1

Member
Joined
May 22, 2013
Messages
227
Gender
Male
HSC
2013
spatula232 said:
If you've learnt, why are you still asking things.
Click to expand...
I'm just not 100% sure on the signs a girl gives of liking me back.

This will be my first actual girlfriend if I successfully get one. So I haven't learnt much.

That is why I started this thread.
 
JT145

JT145

ON is my homeboy
Joined
Mar 4, 2012
Messages
1,678
Gender
Female
HSC
2016
the_one_1 said:
This will be my first actual girlfriend if I successfully get one. So I haven't learnt much.

That is why I started this thread.
Click to expand...
No one is 100% sure that a girl likes them. Your confidence fills the void between x% and 100%.

And that is why you've started these and 10000000 other threads
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Users Who Are Viewing This Thread (Users: 0, Guests: 1)

Top