I have a friend who dated a guy that was in uni when she was in year 11... it didnt work very well and he started hitting on me (I'm older than her)... She was my best friend for Christ sake and he knew it...sheesh. He kept sending me emails and sms' "You're the one I want, not her'' etc... creep. Lucky I didnt lose the friendship, cos I told her. I couldnt not tell her. He had dated her for like 2 years and the relationship was getting serious and yeah, like you butterfly he ended a long relationship to be with someone who said ''fat chance buddy, hit the road''