Draw a diagram on the number plane. Let the vertex of the parabola be the point (0, 0). The diameter of the dish is 4m so draw a line 2 units each left and right horizontal to the x-axis through the y point of 0.4 (to ensure the depth is 0.4m).
Use the equation: x2 = 4ay (since the parabola is positive concave and has vertex the origin).
Look at diagram. The radius is 2. The endpoints' x-values are + 2 and the y-value is 0.4 in each case (I am talking about the points where the diameter meets the curve of the parabola).
These two points can be expressed as (2, 0.4) and (-2, 0.4).
Now since you told the new diameter is 3.5m the new endpoint values become + 1.75m (half of 3.5). Thus the points are (1.75, y) and (-1.75, y) <---- the y values are the same, the depth.
Go back to your equation of x2 = 4ay.
You know that x = + 1.75m and when either of these two values are substituted into the equation x2 = 4ay the answer is 49/16.
Thus
49/16 = 4ay <--- remember y is the depth you are looking for.
To find a use the same equation x2 = 4ay this time substituting in a point you know satisfies the equation. Looking back through this working out you can see the endpoint (2, 0.4).
Sub in it
22 = 4 x a x 0.4
4 = 1.6a
a = 2.5
Now you can find y (the depth).
49/16 = 4 x 2.5 x y
3.0625 = 10y
y = 0.30625m
The depth is 0.3m (to 1.d.p).