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michael1990 said:
yeah its the truth.

Um...

i will tell her, i think she is calling past my house tomorrow.
calling past? on her daily stroll?
 

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aMUSEd1977 said:
Until she punches you in the face and runs off screaming.
LMAO

why the hell would she do that?

you know from experience?
 

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calling past? on her daily stroll?

LOL

if you saw my house you would know you don't walk past for a daily stroll.

Nah she is doing something in the area.
 

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aMUSEd1977 said:
Because you know the girl and her reactions.

Michael, just harden up and talk to the girl. You can get all the advice in the world from the internet, but you're still going to have to talk to her. Just be normal.

"Oh hi, Im michael, I want to fuck you"

That should be a good openner.
THAT WOULD BE THE WORST OPENING LINE!
 

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aMUSEd1977 said:
Women always harp on about honesty.
this is very true!

its completely impossible to tell what woman are thinking and what they actually want from a male.
 

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okayy.

let's just say you're making it more than obvious to her that you have feelings towards her.. or you end up telling her.. etc .. well if she doesnt have the same feelings for you, she will definitely back off OR things will be weird. however, this is pretty much always a temporary thing. it never lasts long. after a while, everything between you will be fine.

anyway, whats there to lose? if she's a true friend, honestly, she won't cut you off. don't act needy or desperate. that scares girls away.

sounds like you really need to get this off your chest. when you finally can, whatever consequence it brings, you'll be free to move on and find THE girl if she doesn't end up being the one.

in the end, this might not be an easy process overall, but you learn to get past things. so will she.

btw, its better off doing it over the fone or online.

face to face is a no go.
 

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ilessthan3u said:
okayy.

btw, its better off doing it over the fone or online.

face to face is a no go.
Why face-to-face a no go?
 

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ilessthan3u said:
okayy.

let's just say you're making it more than obvious to her that you have feelings towards her.. or you end up telling her.. etc .. well if she doesnt have the same feelings for you, she will definitely back off OR things will be weird. however, this is pretty much always a temporary thing. it never lasts long. after a while, everything between you will be fine.

anyway, whats there to lose? if she's a true friend, honestly, she won't cut you off. don't act needy or desperate. that scares girls away.

sounds like you really need to get this off your chest. when you finally can, whatever consequence it brings, you'll be free to move on and find THE girl if she doesn't end up being the one.

in the end, this might not be an easy process overall, but you learn to get past things. so will she.

btw, its better off doing it over the fone or online.

face to face is a no go.
i agree with this. C'mon, you should tell her! You sound like you're wasting away just constantly worrying about it. :eek: And, yeah, face to face can set up a very awkward situation, definitely. so over the phone or internet is the go.

Go on. I believe in you. :)
 

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mellow3sooth said:
i agree with this. C'mon, you should tell her! You sound like you're wasting away just constantly worrying about it. :eek: And, yeah, face to face can set up a very awkward situation, definitely. so over the phone or internet is the go.
Go on. I believe in you. :)
I WISH i could believe in me!

I was just talking to her on MSN :)
 

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Give me a pic of her and then I'll hire Hitch for ya :p
 

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calcie said:
have a good conversation with her? did u ask her wat she looks for in a bf????
LOL

she is typing up summary notes for my favourite subject lol!

i am helping her :)
 

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michael1990 said:
LOL

she is typing up summary notes for my favourite subject lol!

i am helping her :)
you can work your feelings into that conversation. like so:

her: bla bla bla outlining key concepts in point form bla bla...
you: let's fuck.

seamless. Go.
 

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OK seriously...

you've known her for years but how does she act around other guys? Is she flirty with guys? does she act differently to you compared to other boys?
 

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michael1990 said:
Yep back... But must stay on topic this time.

Um... yeah so i still haven't told her how i feel.

I really want to but its a real daunting task. Wish i was one of those people that could just BLURT it out with no worry. But i am not, i am just plain old me.

Anyone else in a similar situation?
Grow some balls.
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Stop procrastinating.
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JUST DO IT.
 

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Kirsty Xx said:
Grow some balls.
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Stop procrastinating.
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JUST DO IT.
quite an evil thing to say, but it needed to be said
but, yer it is hard, i dont think alot of girls know how hard it is, yes if it was me i would go ahead and tell her... blurt it out as such
 

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shes writing summary notes for you? lol.. you're so blatantly in her friend zone its going to be hard to get out

The standard scenario of a guy telling a long time female friend that he likes her is that the gal gets weirded out, feels bad for rejecting him, guy feels like shit from being rejected, and nobodies happy. She will give you cliched excuses like "i dont want to ruin our friendship", "I dont think i want a bf this close to the hsc", or she might even lead you on a bit just so she doesnt feel bad for rejecting you.
Unless you're really pro, which i dont think you are (judging by what youve said and ur avatar), then this scenario will be likely to unfold.

Your problem seems that ur not a challenge to her. You help her with anything she needs and u probably talk to her everyday at every chance you get. She knows that she could have you just like that, no effort at all, so easy like clearing boars in level 1 area. Why would she want to be with someone she can pwn so easily? You have to give her a reason to like you, not to be your friend.

There's plenty of articles around on how to tell if ur in the friend zone, how to avoid it, and how to get out of it. Just google.
 
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