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when you meet up with a girl, what do u reckon would be the best things to do, eg movies?lunch?? n etcc.. n like what would u talk to her bout to keep her entertained and happy..
 

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well, the first part clearly depends on what sort of meeting up you've in mind.
though, as for the latter, i'd say its def, things that interest her. find common grounds on which to talk
 

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Dont go to the movies. Boring and antisocial (for what sounds like a first date)

Lunch is good, but you dont want to get to formal about it. Go to a cafe, get some coffee and just talk to each other. Or just go shopping, try things on, entertain each other. Or do something fun, that you both enjoy but can socialise at the same time. ie. bowling! or putt putt, or or or iceskating. Iceskating is awesome :uhhuh:

Dont try to have set "topics" and predetermined things to talk about,
you will look awkward and bumbling and stupid.

Ask her about herself, listen and reply.
girls love to talk about themselves :p
 

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iif you have preplanned topics, bring them on notecards. it will show you cared enough to prepare
 

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Stripclub. Focus on her the whole night, and she'll know you truley love her.
 

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mr_brightside said:
Ask her about herself, listen and reply.
girls love to talk about themselves :p
yeah i reckon, get so sick of it.
 

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mr_brightside said:
Dont go to the movies. Boring and antisocial (for what sounds like a first date)

Lunch is good, but you dont want to get to formal about it. Go to a cafe, get some coffee and just talk to each other. Or just go shopping, try things on, entertain each other. Or do something fun, that you both enjoy but can socialise at the same time. ie. bowling! or putt putt, or or or iceskating. Iceskating is awesome :uhhuh:

Dont try to have set "topics" and predetermined things to talk about,
you will look awkward and bumbling and stupid.

Ask her about herself, listen and reply.
girls love to talk about themselves :p
wow thats a totally excellent post.

LISTEN TO HIM!
 

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mr_brightside said:
Dont go to the movies. Boring and antisocial (for what sounds like a first date)

Lunch is good, but you dont want to get to formal about it. Go to a cafe, get some coffee and just talk to each other. Or just go shopping, try things on, entertain each other. Or do something fun, that you both enjoy but can socialise at the same time. ie. bowling! or putt putt, or or or iceskating. Iceskating is awesome :uhhuh:

Dont try to have set "topics" and predetermined things to talk about,
you will look awkward and bumbling and stupid.

Ask her about herself, listen and reply.
girls love to talk about themselves :p
absoutely true.

end of discussion.
 

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yee but when out for lunch, i wouldnt know what to talk bout, wat can u talk bout?
 

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start probing with current events. when something interests her, pursue it
 

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pfft i've tried that 'get the girl to talk about themselves' technique and guess what? if the girl doesn't like talking about themselves you lose. it doesn't always work and they know about this technique already.
 

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transcendent said:
pfft i've tried that 'get the girl to talk about themselves' technique and guess what? if the girl doesn't like talking about themselves you lose. it doesn't always work and they know about this technique already.
Its not exactly a technique. They just often do it naturally.
 

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my vote: iceskating
especially if you want to hook in. cause, you can't not hold hands when you're iceskating. plus you can connect for you will both look like tards
 

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yeah, plus the hilariousness when you both stack it. lol then if you go out to eat later, you's can talk about how the other one fell over and it was so fucking funny and you wish it was taped
 

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okii so you reckon shopping?movies?lunch maybe? wat u reckonn.. possibilities?
 

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siddi1 said:
when you meet up with a girl, what do u reckon would be the best things to do, eg movies?lunch?? n etcc.. n like what would u talk to her bout to keep her entertained and happy..
Rufie. It saves all the talking.
 

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melimoo said:
my vote: iceskating
especially if you want to hook in. cause, you can't not hold hands when you're iceskating. plus you can connect for you will both look like tards
its not cool when either one of you is a ice skating pro :(
 

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ICESKATING!!!! or have sushi for lunch lol... If your just meeting friends or jus want to be friends, just have lunch lol... nothing special
 

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ice-skating sounds too much, like WTF to me.

Reckon coffee etc.
 

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