new guy- but what now?! (1 Viewer)

[laniani]

So I met this guy at a club a few weeks ago, and we hit it off and all and he asked if he could give me his number.
So he did, we text each other for a bit...I tried to get him to come out the next weekend, but he was interstate.
The next weekend my friend had a going away party, and she'd hooked up with this guys friend. So the two guys came over after they'd been out, and so we hooked up again, fell asleep together etc. all real cute and innocent.
It's all real sweet, he's really into the compliments, gazing into my eyes and smiling, cuddles, holding hands type thing- but i dont know what to do now!!!
Do I just...leave it up to him to keep anything going..or be the one myself to keep asking him to come out......I hate it when you dont know if they're just into hooking up randomly..or if they actually want anything more....
gah..i dont know....frustration!

 

[iNerd]

ditch him.

 

[laniani]

I stopped reading there, that's your problem.

...but it wasn't an actual club.....just easier to explain as one. It's an irish pub, usually filled with people having drinks after work, the upstairs is just like a dance area,with a clubby atmosphere.
But, seeing as it is actually a 'pub,' we sat down outside,we had a discussion, which is what made me like him so much.
It wasnt 'doomph doomph- not even talk, make out, taxi home,want my number?'

 

[laniani]

did u bang him

no

 

[laniani]

do u want to?

hahaha
um.
maybe......


but i don't want to be just a random fuck..
if we go ahead with that, he might be like..'oh,well....don't wanna be around a slut too long' and ignore me
plus, he hasn't tried anything overly sexual with me...and usually I'd take the guys lead..

 

[ur_inner_child]

just enjoy it, stop fretting.

 

[tallkid34]

hahaha
um.
maybe......


but i don't want to be just a random fuck..
if we go ahead with that, he might be like..'oh,well....don't wanna be around a slut too long' and ignore me
plus, he hasn't tried anything overly sexual with me...and usually I'd take the guys lead..

Don't expect serious advice on BOS. Ever.


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btw, suck his tits.

 

[simonloo]

ask seductively for his underwear and before you return it, shart in it

 

[yer8899]

Fist him

 

[Boxes]

eat his anus.

 

[cannibal.horse]

He randomly hooks up with you at a club? sounds like a good quality guy.

(no whiteknight).

 

[L]

He randomly hooks up with you at a club? sounds like a good quality guy.

(no whiteknight).

u

fail

it

 

[cannibal.horse]

u

fail

it

wait wut?

(no whiteknight).

Where = Urban Dictionary: white knight

White Knight: A person (usually a male) who sees the typical maiden in distress, and believes that he can help her. A male version of the "mother figure" that some girls become.

strong unaware = u get some reds brah.

 

[L]

wait wut?



Where = Urban Dictionary: white knight



strong unaware = u get some reds brah.

i was referring to you.

 

[cannibal.horse]

i was referring to you.

He's speakin' red, can someone translate?

 

[sdcloud69]

deadlift him for a clean set of 10