Well i certainly know that I love people around me. What I am saying is that for ME, that is what gives my life purpose. I didn't say that was the case for others. I think that there are many people that think that postmodernism attempts to create meaning out of intellectualisation. In a sense, a person who feels life has no meaning, will find a purpose in educating others on this fact. I did not say that my opinion was absolute, it is only my opinion. And, if you knew postmodernism the way I assume that you do then you would surely accept that many opinions can exist at once i.e. pluralism.
I find that sometimes postmodernism reaches too far and I find it threatening to say the world is meaningless especially considering the terrible things that have happened this year in my life. I'm sorry if I insulted your view of postmodernism but it is only my opinion. No matter how much you intellectualise, I will still feel like there is a reason to live.