thejosiekiller
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why does it seem bubz's avatar is looking into my soul?
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Wild Dan Hibiki
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same here, i'd be like "grow up bitch"SashatheMan said:
SashatheMan
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why the hell do u tihnk they sell FMH in coles and other stores and u dont need to show ID to buy it, . anyway when i buiy it , i get it for the articles , and then women
LazyBoy
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all i have to say is cosmo is much more pornographic then fhm is any day.
azzie
so delicious...
whats wrong with boys having porn neway?........
seriously i dont see the issue, porn isnt the devil. just get over it.
seriously i dont see the issue, porn isnt the devil. just get over it.
LazyBoy
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what are you talking about? porn is evil. porn tells me to kill things.... whats that porn? you want me to burn the house... good porn...my precious.... lol
yeah i agree... porn is well porn. My Motto: You can look but you cant touch, you can smell but you cant taste. lol
yeah i agree... porn is well porn. My Motto: You can look but you cant touch, you can smell but you cant taste. lol
thejosiekiller
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porn is great for couples
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azzie said:
azzie come with me ill show u my private collection
pinkblinkbarbie
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yeah also for singles. (not speaking from experience) but when guys are single, isnt that when they benefit most from porn? like porn is also good for couples, watching it together etc. mmm porn is goodthejosiekiller said:
and NOTHING is wrong with porn, every boy should have some of his own eother mags, on his computer, dvds whatever....otherwise......YOU ARE NOT NORMAL!...well you are, but you're just weird
thejosiekiller
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porn is more boring when ur single though, when ur with someone its alot more fun
pinkblinkbarbie
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i cant vouch for the single bit....but with my bf it is definently fun lol
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FadeToBlack said:
damn YOURE RUDE!
if i ever met you ill smashh u in the balls with my heels ..
seriously!
i've just joined for over a month and didnt know how immature this thread was.
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bubz :D said:manners, children...
(though i do think not talking to your boyfriend for a week is completely unreasonable just because he read FHM... like i said before, even i read FHM if i ever come across it. being "overdramatic" isn't really an excuse
and nah i dont read cleo etc..
i dont buy magazines.
FadeToBlack
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you're a real hookereye candii said:
i'm gonna slap you in public
Skittled
What did the crab do?
Porn and relationships?
I'm interested in what peoples' opinions are on guys (or, if girls are into it, girls too, but it seems there's not quite the same numbers, so for practicality's sake I'm generalising) looking up porn while they're in relationships... more specifically, what you as a girlfriend (or, if you're a guy, what your girlfriend) think of it.
Understanding a bit of evolutionary theory makes understanding the dielemma a lot more logical and less emotive, but I'm sure you can imagine it even if you don't:
On one hand, its natural (even hardwired) for guys to want to spread their seed, so to speak. On the other, it could easily be seen as (at least bordering on) socially unacceptable.
I've known a girl who believed that porn in general is totally derogatory, and disliked it for its pure existance, regardless of whether guys look at it (this is one girl, but I assume that the belief could be more common than just to her). From there, others accept it exists and that guys look at it... as long as their boyfriend doesn't, it's not a threat to them. Then there are other girls who --truthfully or not-- accept it and attempt to understand (and be understanding) of guys who look at it, even if it's their boyfriend. From there I'd imagine there are some who get hurt but hide it, trying to ignore their natural reaction to it, while others might legitimately accept it (...but I've got no evidence the latter exists!).
Additionally, a quick conversation with MJ made me realise another aspect: that it's pretty common (in our experience) for girls to want to be... looked at, for lack of a better way of putting it. Doesn't mean they want to be slutty, but just that there's a desire to be desired... if you were in the position (for whatever reason might prevent you to, now) to star in these photos/videos/whatever, and be found attractive by whoever's watching them, would you become more accepting of guys --incl. your boyfriend-- seeking it out?
So, guys and girls, what's your take on it? How does the whole concept make you feel?
I'm interested in what peoples' opinions are on guys (or, if girls are into it, girls too, but it seems there's not quite the same numbers, so for practicality's sake I'm generalising) looking up porn while they're in relationships... more specifically, what you as a girlfriend (or, if you're a guy, what your girlfriend) think of it.
Understanding a bit of evolutionary theory makes understanding the dielemma a lot more logical and less emotive, but I'm sure you can imagine it even if you don't:
On one hand, its natural (even hardwired) for guys to want to spread their seed, so to speak. On the other, it could easily be seen as (at least bordering on) socially unacceptable.
I've known a girl who believed that porn in general is totally derogatory, and disliked it for its pure existance, regardless of whether guys look at it (this is one girl, but I assume that the belief could be more common than just to her). From there, others accept it exists and that guys look at it... as long as their boyfriend doesn't, it's not a threat to them. Then there are other girls who --truthfully or not-- accept it and attempt to understand (and be understanding) of guys who look at it, even if it's their boyfriend. From there I'd imagine there are some who get hurt but hide it, trying to ignore their natural reaction to it, while others might legitimately accept it (...but I've got no evidence the latter exists!).
Additionally, a quick conversation with MJ made me realise another aspect: that it's pretty common (in our experience) for girls to want to be... looked at, for lack of a better way of putting it. Doesn't mean they want to be slutty, but just that there's a desire to be desired... if you were in the position (for whatever reason might prevent you to, now) to star in these photos/videos/whatever, and be found attractive by whoever's watching them, would you become more accepting of guys --incl. your boyfriend-- seeking it out?
So, guys and girls, what's your take on it? How does the whole concept make you feel?
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Most girls are opposed to it, usually with the argument "Why would they need that when they have me?". (Irony exists if they aren't even doing anything sexual with their boyfriends)
Anyway, girls need to understand that guys are much more sexual then them, and they need to accept that. Another thing, is for guys not to act wierd about it. We ARE sexual beings, don't fight who you are. Also, lieing to girls (even about this) is always a road to disaster.
My opinion is that it IS immoral.
Anyway, girls need to understand that guys are much more sexual then them, and they need to accept that. Another thing, is for guys not to act wierd about it. We ARE sexual beings, don't fight who you are. Also, lieing to girls (even about this) is always a road to disaster.
My opinion is that it IS immoral.
Beckiki_S
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A guy who has me doesnt need porn!
No, its not that bad i guess... my sortofboyfriend doesnt look at it, he says he got over the whole thing in year 10, but i wouldnt mind unless it was foul internet porn like involving animals and fruit and other really foul stuff. Then id be like, ahhhh hells no!
Edit: No irony. All fact. kthxby.
No, its not that bad i guess... my sortofboyfriend doesnt look at it, he says he got over the whole thing in year 10, but i wouldnt mind unless it was foul internet porn like involving animals and fruit and other really foul stuff. Then id be like, ahhhh hells no!
Edit: No irony. All fact. kthxby.
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theres already a few threads about this but i know my guy looks at it occasionaly but i dont really give a shit.
its not like hes gonna run off with that semi-naked bronzed beauty (well im sure he would if he could) but im not 2 concerned
its not like hes gonna run off with that semi-naked bronzed beauty (well im sure he would if he could) but im not 2 concerned