last_chance said:
With religion it is something that becomes part of your daily life, and helps t minimise society's problems... if only everyone followed the advice.
War for example, and religious dispute leading to people looking down on others because of their views. Religion, while I'm sure it does resolve some problems, is not a cure for all the world's troubles.
last_chance said:
For eg. - dont take drugs because it can lead to crime.
- dont drink alcohol because its not good for you and can put you and others around you in dander.
- dont do sex b4 marriage because it may lead to a child and put his life in danger, no father, put up for adoption and so on
That's more a common sense issue. As I said before, I'm not religious, and I don't drink, or take drugs. Sex before marriage is something that I don't have a problem with, providing it is undertaken in a sensible and responsible manner, and (Personally), I would only do this in a long term relationship. That said, it's an individual's decision as to when they will have sex, and not all sex outside marriage results in dead babies.
Also, I note that you have said "his life". In the interests of using non-discriminatory language, that should be "their life", or at least "his/her".
In addition, each point you've made relates to "danger". Walking outside your house also results in "danger". Perhaps religion should also condemn individuals leaving their homes.
last_chance said:
What I'm trying to say is life is a test. Everyone has desires and temptations they want to satisfy, but thats the test, we have to learn to control them. Put it this way some of us are so caught up in thinking about what we want and how we can get it and dont stop to thank god for everything they do have. I mean there are people out there who have nothing, wishing for just a crumb, while we sook all night long about dying out hair the wrong colour or missing out on an episode of the OC. When I think about it sometimes, I laugh and then ask myself imagine we had nothing, imagine the afterlife. That place is for eternity, and I for one dont wanna be in hell forever!!!!
I don't thank god for anything I have, because I don't believe in a god. That said, I am grateful for what I do have, and do what I can to help others in return. I don't really see what this has to do with religion, apart from people thinking that they're doing the world a favour by saying prayers for people who are starving to death on the other side of the globe. To each their own, but no, being non-religious doesn't mean you are any less capable of helping others.
Also, the selfishness which you describe isn't limited to non-religious people, again you seem to be generalising.
last_chance said:
By the way if anyone finds this over the top -- tell me -- but I just thought it would be a good reminder of what lies next.
Not really up to me, if you're happy with what you believe then that's fine. What bothers me is the automatic assumption that those who do not believe are somehow less compassionate, moral, and responsible.