erin_tonkin said:
Well we have friends to fellowship with them and talk about God and we are told to tell these people about Jesus. That is why we have friends. It seems selfish to have friends for personal gain.
By having your friends pray for you and you pray for them, you are not using them for a personal gain. I agree, we have friends to fellowship with them and talk about God ...
and also to support each other through prayer.
erin_tonkin said:
there are people who dont have friends. I am not one of them and I agree Mary can just be your friend yet she doenst exist anymore.
Mary doesn't exist? That's extremely contradictory to the Christian faith! Christians believe that after death people are called to live an
eternal life in heaven. Whilst she may not be on this earth, she is now living eternally. Therefore, she would be able to assist and pray for you.
erin_tonkin said:
Yes its great to have friends who can pray for and with you but does Mary really do this. Is your conversation with her two sided?
Yes, Mary can help you, like any other friend can help you. Whilst the conversation may not be two sided, she can still assist you through prayer. But how can she pray for us when its not a two sided conversation? Let me show my answer through another question... Can Jesus help us eventhough its not a two sided conversation? Yes. People who have entered the Kingdom of God become something totally and radically different to what we currently know of. It is therefore quite difficult to be able to converse with something that is so radically different from us. However, Mary can still hear us asking for assistance and as a friend, she assists us.
erin_tonkin said:
The Holy Spirit is God it is part of the trinity so it is in a lleague of its own not likened to saints or family.
Wasn't saying the Holy Spirit is the same as the saints or family. Simply trying to say that not only can friends, family and saints assist us, but the Holy Spirit (which Christ gave us) can assist us.
erin_tonkin said:
As to saints. what do you/others believe of them. The bible in Pauls letters calls any follower of Jesus a saint. This term has been changed somewhat though and sainthood is something earned which I find odd.
I believe that Saints are people that have spent are large portion of their life trying to understand God, work for God and preach God's word. This is why many Catholics ask Saints for assistance; because they spent most of their lives devoting themselves to God.
Again, any more questions, don't hesitate to ask.