Unwanted teen sex on the rise (1 Viewer)

[Smile_Time351]

So that's what they call rape nowadays hey?

I guess next we'll be calling 1st degree murder "unwanted axe in the head".

Well put. A crisis could be afoot. Who knows what other criminal ambiguities could arise if we continue with these euphemisms?

To be fair though, Gary's "Rapist Code" was a LITTLE excessive. Not ALL men are rapists...:rofl:

 

[BlueCatBulletCD]

We are not American.

What? You have to be 21 to see a member of the opposite sex in America?

 

[Ben1220]

unwanted sex? Do you mean rape? It's only an issue if they are being forced against their will. Otherwise it's just stupid people making stupid decisions that they regret. Hardly your or my problem.

 

[Duffman0]

1. You are a rapist if you get a girl drunk and have sex with her.
2. You are a rapist if you find a drunk girl and have sex with her.
3. You are a rapist if you get yourself drunk and have sex with her. Your drunkenness is no excuse.
4. If you are BOTH drunk you may still be a rapist.
5. If she’s alternating between puking her guts out and passing out in the bed then you’re a rapist.
6. If she’s sleeping and you have sex with her you’re a rapist.
7. If she’s unconscious and you have sex with her then you’re a rapist.
8. If she’s taking sleeping pills and doesn’t wake up when you have sex with her then you’re a rapist.
9. If she is incapacitated in any way and unable to say ‘Yes’ then you’re a rapist.
10. If you drug her then you’re a rapist.
11. If you find a drugged girl and have sex with her then you’re a rapist.
12. If you don’t bother to ask her permission and she says neither ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ then you could be a rapist.
13. You are a rapist if you ‘nag’ her for sex. Because you manage to ply an eventual ‘yes’ from a weary victim doesn’t mean it’s not rape. You are a rapist.
14. You are a rapist if you try to circumvent her “No” by talking her into it. She’s not playing hard to get, and, even if she IS it’s not YOUR responsibility to ‘get’ her. You’re still a rapist.
15. You are a rapist if you manipulate her into sex when she doesn’t otherwise want it. If you say, “If you loved me you’d do X” then you’re a rapist. If you say, “All the other kids are doing it!” then you’re a rapist.
16. If you threaten her, or act in a way that SHE thinks you’re threatening her then you’re a rapist. If you puff up and get loud and frustrated while trying to ‘talk’ her into sex then you’re a rapist.
17. You are a rapist if you don’t immediately get your hands off of her when she says ‘no’. You are a rapist if you take your hands off of her and then put them back ON her after 10 minutes and she eventually ‘gives in’ to this tactic.
18. You are a rapist if you won’t let her sleep peacefully without waking her every 15 minutes asking her for sex. Sleep deprivation is a form of torture and YOU are a rapist.
19. If you’re necking with her and you’re naked and you’ve already gone down on her and she says ‘No’ to sex with you and you have sex with her anyway then you’re a rapist.
20. If you’re engaged in intercourse and she says ‘No’ at ANY point and you don’t immediately stop then you’re a rapist.
20a. If you've finished having sex and she wishes she had said 'No' (but didn't actually say 'No' out loud) then you are still a rapist.
21. If she said “Yes” to sex with a condom and that condom breaks and you proceed anyway then you’re a rapist.
22. If she picked you up at a bar looking for sex and then decides that she doesn’t WANT sex and you continue then you’re a rapist.
23. If she changes her mind at ANY point for ANY reason and you don’t immediately back off or you try to talk her into it and get sex anyway then you’re a rapist.
24. If you don’t hit her and she says ‘No’ you’re still a rapist.
25. If you don’t have a knife or a gun or a garrote and she says ‘No’ then you’re still a rapist.
26. If you’re a friend of hers you can still be a rapist.
27. If you had sex with her the night before but she doesn’t want morning sex and you pressure her for it anyway then you’re a rapist.
28. If you’re her husband you can still be a rapist.
29. If it’s your wedding night and she doesn’t WANT to have sex with you and you force or coerce her anyway then you’re a rapist.
30. If she’s had sex with you hundreds of times before but doesn’t want to on the 101st time then you’re a rapist.
31. If you penetrate her anally, orally or digitally against her will then YOU my friend, are ALSO a rapist.
32. Women do not owe you sex.
33. Buying her dinner does not entitle you to sex.
34. If it exists there is porn of it. And you are a rapist.
35. Buying her clothing does not entitle you to sex.
36. Buying her lingerie does not entitle you to sex. It also doesn’t mean that she has any obligation to wear that lingerie around you.
37. Spending any amount of money on her does not, ever, entitle you to sex. (Lol, prostitutes)
38. Seeing her legs or cleavage does not entitle you to sex.
39. If she ‘turns you on’ you’re not entitled to sex.
40. If she has fucked every man in a 10 square mile radius and she doesn’t want to fuck you and you have sex with her anyway, then you’re a rapist.
41. Her clothing is not a reason for you to rape her. Her LACK of clothing is no reason to rape her. If she’s wearing a thong and pasties you STILL have no right to rape her.
42. If she’s a prostitute and she says “No” then you’re a rapist.
43. If she’s a stripper and she says “No” then you’re a rapist. Likewise, if she’s a stripper and she’s been rubbing against your dick all night long and you follow her to her car and have sex with her against her will then you are ALSO a rapist.
44. If you watch a woman being raped without calling the authorities then you’re as bad as a rapist and you may also be a rapist yourself.
45. If you don’t fight rape then you accept rape.
46. If you don’t believe a woman when she says she was raped then you’re encouraging rape.
47. If you choose to remain friends with a man who raped a woman you are encouraging rape.
48. If you confess to the authorities that you raped a woman it does not exonerate you. You are not suddenly a model of good behavior. (So why confess then? Think about it.)
49. If you ‘only’ raped one woman, you’re STILL a rapist.
50. You cannot tell who is a rapist by the way they look. Rapists are your friends, your brothers, your fathers and you won’t know it.
51. Do not get frustrated with a woman if she doesn’t trust you. SHE already knows that rapists don’t wear signs on their foreheads. Something you think is innocuous SHE may find terrifying.

srs bizns

The next time you have the audacity to copy and paste a huge chunk of some super feminist's journal, at least have the integrity to acknowledge that you didn't in fact write what you've pasted and provide a link to where you got your quote from.

Here's the original list by the blogger "Biting Beaver".

 

[AlleyCat]

a lot of people are very blase or sceptical about women who report "unwanted sex" but think about it: if the sex is truly unwanted, then it is rape.

it is a serious problem in my opinion, and i think a lot of the blame for the recent rise comes from the fact that people dont view someone forcing sex on a drunk person as serious a crime as a stranger raping someone in a park.

 

[Iron]

I dont see why you guys really care anyway. From the way you talk on any other issue, sex is a totally insignificant, natural act which holds no value beyond the physical and immediate.
If it holds unwanted physical value, you can always visit certain doctors, you say. No big deal.
Surely youd all view this as no more significant than a quick slap across the face from a friend?

 

[Duffman0]

I dont see why you guys really care anyway. From the way you talk on any other issue, sex is a totally insignificant, natural act which holds no value beyond the physical and immediate.
If it holds unwanted physical value, you can always visit certain doctors, you say. No big deal.
Surely youd all view this as no more significant than a quick slap across the face from a friend?

Premise: That stupid excuse for a list that says what rape is does not constitute what rape is.

To answer your question - Yes, I'm totally sure that a quick slap across the face is the equivilant of forcefully violating a person sexually. Rape also lasts no more than a second of contact at most and its effects quickly fade. A slap leaves the victim with almost unhealable emotional and mental trauma. A slap causes the victim to often contemplate suicide or enter deep depression.

Yeah, I can see why you'd think rape and slaps are the same.

 

[Iron]

psst im on ur side

 

[Duffman0]

psst im on ur side

I can never tell with you. Half the time I don't know whether or not you're some super christian/catholic or just parodying the whole system.

 

[Iron]

negged

 

[Tully B.]

guard your flower ladies

Are they allowed to have sex while they guard this "flower" you speak of?

 

[SylviaB]

1. You are a rapist if you get a girl drunk and have sex with her.
2. You are a rapist if you find a drunk girl and have sex with her.

Fuck the hell off you retarded cunt.

If a girl is stupid enough to drink to the point where she is unable to make responsible decisions then it's her own damn fault for having sex with someone she later wishes she hadn't.

 

[sam04u]

I read the whole list.
I chuckled at rule 34
and then I frowned at the signature.

 

[louy]

isnt rape a crime ??

 

[*TRUE*]

Unwanted teen sex on the rise: report - ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)


Any thoughts on the rate of unwanted sex? Are we talking about rape here and what can be done to combat it?

I don't think we are discussing rape as the reasons given for experiencing "unwanted sex" seemed to be drunkeness (undermining judgement ) and weakness under peer pressure.
EDIT: The answer seems pretty clear, imo.

 

[Yasser Arafat]

which both constitute rape

 

[*TRUE*]

which both constitute rape

Explain yourself?
A girl being drunk and agreeing to sex then regretting it does not mean she has been raped.
A girl choosing to have sex because her partner ribbed her/begged her does not constitute rape on the blokes part.
It's just unwanted sex/regretted sex.
If a guy has sex with a drunk woman without her consent, rape.
If a guy forces sex on his girlfriend, rape.

 

[Yasser Arafat]

all of those things are rape in the eyes of the law

 

[Yasser Arafat]

drunk girls cant consent etc
consent that is forced by begging etc is not real consent

 

[*TRUE*]

all of those things are rape in the eyes of the law

I thought from the opening post that we were discussing whether we considered the instances of 'unwanted sex' referred to as rape - i emphatically consider it not rape for a man to have sex with a intoxicated and consenting woman unless he spiked her drink, etc.