well, this isnt about love, or any relationship with a guy... its my friend, shes one of my closet friends her names alycia. But we aren't speaking at the moment. its a long story but here goes :
she always comments on how people look, not just make up, clothes whatever, she points out really really small things that no one gives a damn about. eg "you have a red spot on your cheek", "my god your wearing ppink eyeshadow!!!" "you eyebrows go up when you look at the page" (serious,y this is the stuff she considers imortant). so this goes on and on, and i just got fed up, i exploded, blew up at her. i'd had enough, and when she commented about he eyebrow thing, i just calmly said "i never realised how much of a shallow person you are. you are really shallow! you only ever look at people's appearance"
she was like "dont say that about me! im not!"
"you are! every morning without fail you will look people up and down then say something about he way they look. all you see is a persons looks"
"shut up! im not shallow!"
"whatever"
i was careful not to swear at her or anything, i just wanted to say how it is, the very truth.
so that was yesterday morning, and we havent spoken since. ive talked to a mutual friend and she said that lysh will not talk to me if i dont apologise.
im a really really stubborn, proud person, i cant apologise. i know im right, everything i said was the absolute truth, yet it is killing me not talking to her. At school today i tried talking to her, she just turned her nose up and ignored me.
omg what do i do!? should i just swallow my pride and apologise?! shes being so immature!!!
she always comments on how people look, not just make up, clothes whatever, she points out really really small things that no one gives a damn about. eg "you have a red spot on your cheek", "my god your wearing ppink eyeshadow!!!" "you eyebrows go up when you look at the page" (serious,y this is the stuff she considers imortant). so this goes on and on, and i just got fed up, i exploded, blew up at her. i'd had enough, and when she commented about he eyebrow thing, i just calmly said "i never realised how much of a shallow person you are. you are really shallow! you only ever look at people's appearance"
she was like "dont say that about me! im not!"
"you are! every morning without fail you will look people up and down then say something about he way they look. all you see is a persons looks"
"shut up! im not shallow!"
"whatever"
i was careful not to swear at her or anything, i just wanted to say how it is, the very truth.
so that was yesterday morning, and we havent spoken since. ive talked to a mutual friend and she said that lysh will not talk to me if i dont apologise.
im a really really stubborn, proud person, i cant apologise. i know im right, everything i said was the absolute truth, yet it is killing me not talking to her. At school today i tried talking to her, she just turned her nose up and ignored me.
omg what do i do!? should i just swallow my pride and apologise?! shes being so immature!!!