When do i go in? (3 Viewers)

[muscleman09]

well... ive been with my girl for almost 3ish months... and im not sure if its safe to.... "go in". "Stick it". you know what i mean... i just dont wanna try and see her freak out... and well u know. fuck me off. cause the last thing i wuld ever wanna do is make her feel sexually uncomfortable..

All you male sluts out there? help me

As well as the experienced chicks ;D

 

[scaredytiger]

talk to her, hey.

 

[Tulipa]

You mean fuck her?

If you haven't talked to her about it first, then you shouldn't be "sticking it in" yet. See if she's comfortable first. Asking an internet forum if your girlfriend is ready for sex isn't really the right way to find out.

 

[HalcyonSky]

you's make out, right?

next time just escalate it; touching her thigh, biting her neck, whispering dirty things, whatever.

unless you're michael1990 or her dad is joseph fritzl, it should naturally make her horny, just let it happen from there

talking about it like "so.. would you feel comfortable if we had sex tonight? would that be okay with you?" and turning it into some mechanical process is generally bad

 

[cookie.banana]

haha justins the sexual doctor phil

 

[muscleman09]

hahah nah no sex, i mean fingering... there i said it...
Yeh... do girls generally get horny? like do we have to unlock something in them to unleash their inner hornyness? if that makes sense... lol

 

[cookie.banana]

ask her?
what she likes?

3 months is long enough to, you know, actually talk to the other person

 

[muscleman09]

ohhh talking... yes thats the next stage in our relationship... were still working on staring at each other... =)

but yeh... i didnt think guys wuld generally talk about that kinda "move"
mabye i shud just move in slowly... and if shes uncomfortable, just back away and try again in 20min

 

[HalcyonSky]

hahah nah no sex, i mean fingering... there i said it...
Yeh... do girls generally get horny? like do we have to unlock something in them to unleash their inner hornyness? if that makes sense... lol

girls are just as horny as guys

 

[muscleman09]

girls are just as horny as guys

u think?? like i cant ever imagine how they 'crave' for penis the same way i wuld crave for pssy... hmmm ok im going in.

 

[justanotherposter]

Why all these relationship rules? If you're bored watching a movie with her or something just jam your finger in there and yell "SURPRISE!".

Disclaimer: I am not responsible for the results.

 

[muscleman09]

Why all these relationship rules? If you're bored watching a movie with her or something just jam your finger in there and yell "SURPRISE!".

Disclaimer: I am not responsible for the results.

well i guess i would have warned her then, so its not rape

 

[whatashotbyseve]

I think your sig contains your answer, sensai.

 

[muscleman09]

I think your sig contains your answer, sensai.

u made me lol and come to my senses

 

[T- Rex]

if you're not ready to even say the words 'have sex', then you're not ready to have sex

 

[Mantello]

Dude, if you can't communicate with your own girlfriend who ACUALLY said yes to you in the first place, then what are you doing in this relationship?

Dude, when your gf said yes to you, she isn't oblivious to the fact that you'll ask these types of questions. She knows (if the relatnioship still stands) that this thing will happen one day.

So, talk to her...don't rush into it. Just tell her you've been thinking about it, NOT ALOT but just touching on the subject. See how she reacts, tell her you're comfortable with a no as an answer. Let her be the one to answer, not YOU.

 

[settle*precious]

if you can't say it you probably shouldn't be doing it, hey?

communicate.
communicate.
communicate.

 

[madsam]

Seriously OP?

when your hooking up with her, feel her boobs if you havnt already, and then slowly move your hand down. Unless she stops and tells you off, or moves your hand or whatever, then you're in the all clear, remember: "It's always easier to ask for forgiveness, than for permission"

so i'd say dont ask her too much beforehand because then it gets really awkward and shit

 

[chamelia]

Just get some balls about you and do it. She'll love it.

 

[Pain]

Sex? HAH. You don't even have balls to talk to her about it.