I did not say it was unfair to generalise about private schools
I said that to say Barker was overrated would be to say all private schools are overrated because Barker is pretty representative of most private schools, and unless you've been in a private school or been at Barker you're not really in a position to say anything about it
On the other hand, I went to a selective school so I have something to base my opinion (and it is an opinion) on.
think selective schools are bad because it is an unnatural environment. In every other part of our lives we are going to be confronted with a wide range of people, some who care about marks and some who care more about who is going to win the rugby world cup. Alot of students in selective schools (and this is an observation of teachers who work there- I did a study on this for geography) tend to be less accustomed to dealing with people who do not have the same level of intelligence as them- and this gets progressively worse each year as the next cohort has to get more coaching, and thus learn less social skills as they are not participating in a wider variety of co-curricular activities.
I think it is uhealthy to put young kids (some starting year 7 at 10 years old) in a situation where they are pushed in one direction, spoon-fed and encouraged to succeed more academically than in any other way.
I apologise if I have offended anyone. I'm not a snob or a bitch. I just feel sorry for those kids whose parents feel getting into a selective school is everything and as a result dont let them do things that normal kids do- like try soccer or ballet or whatever. I'm not trying to attack anyone that goes there- 1/2 my friends do and they're great people, its more I think the institution is wrong. Theres a totally different world outside selective schools. It took me a year at barker to adjust to being with people in class that were not interested in school at all.
All I'm trying to say is that selective schools dont really teach tolerance of different types of people, particularly those of lesser intelligence. There are so many amazing people out there that won't get 90 + for their UAI and all I'm saying is that had I not gotten out of the selective school when I did, I would not be as well equipped to meet any of these people or accept them.
But yeah again sorry if I pissed anyone off