Why can't I stop crying (2 Viewers)

[kazan]

the best way to deal with a breakup is to surround yourself with good friends wholl make you laugh. its good to go out and get smashed but dont make a habit of it, that wont help in the long run and youll feel worse

there is no point crying at all. go out and have a good time, alcohol helps,

 

[Ranger Stacie]

there is no point crying at all. go out and have a good time, alcohol helps,

crying is good, helps you vent. but you need to have your cry and then get over it.

 

[PiGMAN]

Yeah, well he sounds really hot and you sound really desperate. Do you have a testosterone imbalance or are you just naturally ugly and horny? Just looking at your post (drunk phone calls, being ignored, being shut down), it sounds like you're bothering him far too much. And whilst everyone here will say dickhead-this and loser-that maybe you're just a desperado with no chance?

Women put far too much emphasis on empathising. Walk a mile in a troll's clompers and you'll learn a lot.

This room's too filled with scorned women to be rational.

testify

 

[kazan]

crying is good, helps you vent. but you need to have your cry and then get over it.

i meant there is no point JUST crying, like sitting at home wasting time. Sure cry, but you also need to fill your time up with something else

 

[kazan]

Well right now she's filling up tissues with salty water. Does that count?

no, it doesn't....

 

[MiuMiu]

Sweetie, all you can do is cry it out. Theres no other way. Eventually there'll be no more tears left and you'll begin to heal.

Just keep crying.

 

[AsyLum]

Kids don't take speed while crying, it could lead to death

 

[lourai*87]

I understand completely. This sounds almost exactly like my last bf. And i still cry sometimes....its been a while too. Anyhow, just recently after he broke up with me i think what was hurting the most was that i still had hope that things would fix up in the end although deep down i probably knew they wouldnt (he said that maybe we could try again after i finished the hsc...so i spose i was left anticipating this thing moths ahead). I think he just said that to make me feel a little better. But in all seriousness, the best thing i ever did was tell him "i think we should jsut forget about it". And once i aknowledged to myself that it was over and there wasnt hope, i could finally move on and sto dwelling on it.

I hope you feel better soon

 

[MiuMiu]

Everyone here thats saying its a waste of time to cry and to just forget about it have obviously never experienced it.

 

[Lundy]

They tend to be male, though

 

[Ranger Stacie]

Everyone here thats saying its a waste of time to cry and to just forget about it have obviously never experienced it.

im not saying its a waste of time, just that it is a lot better to be with friends rather than dwelling on it and making yourself feel worse.

and yes, i am talking from experience

 

[MiuMiu]

I was more referring to the posts of members that are male and have told us in other threads that they have never had a girlfriend.

 

[marchetta]

Breaking up with somebody is pretty tough to deal with. It's never easy for anyone. It takes time to heal the wounds, so if you just give yourself plenty of space and time you'll eventually get over it and perhaps meet somebody a lot more better to go out with in the future.

 

[olchik]

I feel very sorry for you, honey. Well, you'll get over it after some time. Try not to think about him, he is not worth your tears!

 

[Diddimz]

just let it all out, it wont be easy, but you will move on and find someone bigger and better

 

[stainmepink]

seriously don't think about it. heres an idea. for everytime you tihink you're going to cry, look up and perve at a sexy fucker walking past you. that way you'll get over the bitchface in no time.

ppfft. men

 

[nick1048]

Ahhh Hahaha Casmira Just Got Owned

 

[SweetSeasons]

yeah I've stopped crying now.. Kinda..

On Wednesday I had a massive fight with this guy, who was my first bf but like we've been pretty close friends for over a year. Since he's had his new gf and i was with my bf all he had been doing was putting shit on me. N I'd been hanging out with him and his gf n his best mate a lot more then usual after my bf dumped me... any ways my first bf.. he called me a slut and told me that I have to get over him and his best friend and get some morals.. so I told him to go fuck him self and never talk to me again. Fuck that pissed me off there is no way I am a slut and there is no way I still have a thing for him or his friend.
But yeah after that I cired about everything shit for like 3 hours strait and I haven't cried since. lol.

And I gave my last bf, the one that just dumped me, his Big Day Out Ticket like I was gonna when we where going out and we are gonna still go to the big day out together..

I'm kind of at the yeah I'm really sad we broke up, but I wouldn't go back out with him because it wouldn't be the same. I wouldn't be able to completely trust him with everything like I used to and if I can't do that then what's the point in having a relationship.

 

[Diddimz]

you shouldnt have given him the BDO ticket, should have found some other guy to give it to instead

 

[SweetSeasons]

I was gonna sell it to my 1st bf's best mate.. but then I find out he thinks I always try and crack onto him and that I'm in love with him.. I don't think so..

I plan on spending the day alone any ways, I like doing that and have done so the past 3 years I've been, it's easier to jump lines that way

I do how ever have a spare Xavier Rudd ticket and a particular guy who may want to come