Why didn't your last relationship work? (3 Viewers)

[VonDavis]

We started dating very young and we have been together for almost 3 years which then made us too comfortable too early ... We are still on and off though so I suppose it is kind of working

 

[Tuggi3]

We started dating very young and we have been together for almost 3 years which then made us too comfortable too early ... We are still on and off though so I suppose it is kind of working

yeh that's like me and my ex..we'd been together off and on (more on though) for like 5 years...were curently on an 'off' at the moment...might last a while this time actually

 

[VonDavis]

that is the collest sig picture .... I hate that dumb Frog

 

[jumb]

I'll pass, thanks.

You're the one that's missing out.

 

[santaslayer]

We did everything a couple would possibly do. What do we do then? Marriage? ...Ewwww...
I'm only 19.

 

[niteshade1312]

long distance REALLY doesn't work

 

[Dreamerish*~]

You're the one that's missing out.

Only if the real jumb has the personality opposite to that of e-jumb.

 

[glitter burns]

My last relationship ended because I stopped having feelings for him.
Not really a problem, it's just how things go sometimes.

 

[VonDavis]

Does anybody else find that when you get really comfortable with someone you seem to find them unattractive sexually and more attractive as a good friend?

 

[sweetXinsanity]

No actually i find that if i feel really comfortable with a guy, its way easier to turn it into something intimate...theres no point pouncing on someone who u have no idea if they feel the same bout you or if their not emotionally compatible with you......unless ur just extremely horney!

 

[jumb]

Only if the real jumb has the personality opposite to that of e-jumb.

Either way, you would love to have me as a boyfriend.

 

[Dreamerish*~]

Does anybody else find that when you get really comfortable with someone you seem to find them unattractive sexually and more attractive as a good friend?

Not at all.

I wouldn't be able to do anything with someone I'm not totally comfortable with. In fact, if I get really comfortable with a guy, I'll start being sexually attracted to him.

Do you mean get comfortable as in picking your nose, burping, farting etc in front of him? In that case... maybe it would fit into the good friend category more. But I could do all that in front of my boyfriend, it doesn't really matter.

Jumb: stop e-dreaming, you hippy.

 

[sweetXinsanity]

.....how so?

 

[iamsickofyear12]

I hated the bitch.

 

[alby]

no chemistry...just felt like mates doing stuff (2 weeks)

the one before that - he had pretty high expectations of me/what i should be (3 months)

one before that (first) - i didnt really feel much for him in the end, he turned into a total dickhead..hell jealouse, way too macho, druggo, dropout (well he dropped out a couple of months after we broke up). i got shitty caus he was so clingy and i was doing my trials/half yrlies/pip..i couldnt talk/spend time with him much, so he got kinda cut. then 1 or 2 months before we broke up, he became friends with some chick he'd never actually met (got her number off a mutual friend, who neither of them actually liked), and he bragged to me how much he called/msg'd/chatted to her (dont know if it was his way of trying to make me talk more, but it got on my nerves a bit anyway)..i finally broke it off after he had phone sex with her (8 months)

 

[Shaynie69]

Mine didnt work because i wanted to be on my own for a while and see how much better i am in myself. Well im more active and more bitchy and i seem to have more time for my friends, when im not sick that is.......Hey adina (sweetXSanity!)??!!

 

[Shaynie69]

Mine didnt work because i wanted to be on my own for a while and see how much better i am in myself. Well im more active and more bitchy and i seem to have more time for my friends, when im not sick that is.......Hey adina (sweetXSanity!)??!!

And now it looks like we MIGHT be getting back together.....guh i dont know what to do. give me a gun.

 

[sweetXinsanity]

Hehe yeah shaynie SweetXInsanity
i wanted sumfin kool as a name.. and PLUS its a section of lyrics from a mad perfect circle song

-in conclusion to my relo probs..i just get sick of em and break their hearts.. then inturn break my own lol someone get back to me once they find the logic in what i just said....

 

[Meldrum]

Too much, too fast.

There needs to be some element of mystery in a relationship to keep it going. Having shower-sex after 3 days is never good.

 

[Raiks]

Why didn't my last relationship work?

I wasn't ready for the relationship in the first place. I had too many emotional hangups from a previous relationship for me to actually make a go of it. It ended up not being a full relationship but rather a very solid friendship instead because I simply wasn't ready at the time.