One step at a time buddy. Gotta learn the ropes firstWell, introducing yourself to chicks should be fine - but what about the hot chicks? =P
The sad thing about that song... is that it's better than most of the things at the top of the charts now.One step at a time buddy. Gotta learn the ropes first
Also, if you haven't seen it Shadow;
that could be me. Most days I stay home, read, spend time on the computer and play video games. And even now I have sweaty palms as I am typing furiously at a keyboard. But I don't live in a basement, my computer's in the living roomunless you are some nervous basement asian with sweaty palms.
just leave your comfort zone and put on the fascade of confidence. Or you could take antidepressants for a while but i endorse the comfort zone thing.Usually I'm pretty nervous and hesitant about meeting girls (if its not of my own accord, that is if I have a legitimate excuse to talk to one in the first place) and I am generally uncomfrotable to large social get-togethers especially if there are lots of random people (my friend's friends etc) However I do have a close group of friends whom I feel very comfortable hanging out with but otherwise if its with people who aren't part of my inner circle it can get rather awkward.
We noticed. =PThat's sad... and cheating. Why not win a girl fair and square? It'd be better... wouldn't it?
Maybe I'm just old fashioned like that...
right on the money ally it is to do with self esteem, probably due to me having a rather rough time at a selective all boys school. Although I think when u start at University during the first few weeks I, like other ppl, will probably be going off on a temporary self esteem high, what with all the new ppl u have to meet and having to give a good impression to everyone u meet. But I suppose this show of bravado will wear off in due time.I am just lol-ing at this thread right now (not at your situation though, Chevalier, I would never do that)
Hmm well I think your problem lies with self-esteem, maybe? I reckon you should try and get out more, not necessarily go out and talk to the first girl you see, but perhaps do something that you wouldn't normally do.. drag yourself out of the house, pick up a new sport, or instrument.. or whatever, and learn it!
Go out there AND RIDE A SKATEBOARD WOO (or a camel, whichever floats your boat).
When you feel confident in yourself, that's when you can approach people. I think it would be awkward for me and the guy if he approached me but it was quite obvious that he didn't know what to say..
Oh I know. Get a job. It requires you to work with your peers, and depending what it is, serve customers. Guaranteed one of them has to be female..