what girls think of guys....boys come run to this thread :D (2 Viewers)

[talisman]

GUYS DON'T BE OFFENDED. i'm not saying that the world is running rife with the ass-hole male sex

I reckon some girls (in high school at least) think guys can be douchebags and the only reason why we don't call them manwhores is because of the invisible double standard we have.

a girl who goes out with several guys in 6 months is a slut.
a guy who sleeps around with several girls in a month is well...he's just a guy.

i could very well be making ghastly generalisations, so guys, please clear your name or admit that 90% of guys' brains function to understand sex (all in good humour of course).

on the flip side, some girls can be ultra-obsessive over guys, and i sincerely apologise for all that on behalf of the female sex.

some people actually have an amazing relationship with their bf/gf but i've only known one person whose ever really had that

If you're a guy, if you could take a girl on a date, would you choose the intelligent, kind and funny but maybe not that attractive girl or take the not-so-intelligent, not-so-kind and not-so-funny girl who has legs up to there?

and not saying that girls can't be both, because as shadowdude said that's probably a "win-win situation" hahaha

COME ON BOYS. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY?

 

[kaz1]

legs up to there

 

[iRuler]

If you're a guy, if you could take a girl on a date, would you choose the intelligent, kind and funny but maybe not that attractive girl or take the not-so-intelligent, not-so-kind and not-so-funny girl who has legs up to there?

COME ON BOYS. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY?

intelligent, kind, funny and attractive.

 

[kaz1]

intelligent, kind, funny and attractive.

make a poll mr. moderatar

 

[iRuler]

make a poll mr. moderatar

Cant, only smod/admin can do that

 

[talisman]

made a poll

 

[iRuler]

made a poll

Where's the option I picked?

 

[talisman]

ermmmm i have noooo idea. how do i edit the poll?

 

[Shadowdude]

If you're a guy, if you could take a girl on a date, would you choose the intelligent, kind and funny but maybe not that attractive girl or take the not-so-intelligent, not-so-kind and not-so-funny girl who has legs up to there?

That is a very interesting question.

It really depends on whether the girl in question who is being courted falls into one of two categories. There are more than this, but given that this person is date-able, other categories are pushed out. So there are two categories, there is the "I want this relationship so I can get laid" or "I want this relationship because this person is genuinely awesome and I want to spend time with them".

Of course there are a few select girls who are really hot but also awesome people - and I call that "the win-win scenario".

 

[Ivorytw]

You've got some conflicting statements there.

First girls are being treated unfairly for being sexually active and then you're saying guys shouldn't then choose those girls with their legs up in the air?

 

[pony_magician]

wow no being attractive doesnt mean you're not nice or smart jesus christ

and being not-attractive (lolugly) doesn't mean you are nice or funny

serious question op; are you ugly? because this 'guys don't care about a girls personality wah wah' is definitely an ugly person attitude,

funfact not everyone is a shallow ass.

 

[talisman]

You've got some conflicting statements there.

First girls are being treated unfairly for being sexually active and then you're saying guys shouldn't then choose those girls with their legs up in the air?

i never said that 'sluts' or girls categorised as such are sexually active. i said that they're called "sluts" because they go out with a lot of guys (in comparison to some guys who might be a lot worse but aren't considered similarly), and some girls can be obsessive about their bf, but that's another story

 

[b00m]

wow no being attractive doesnt mean you're not nice or smart jesus christ

and being not-attractive (lolugly) doesn't mean you are nice or funny

serious question op; are you ugly? because this 'guys don't care about a girls personality wah wah' is definitely an ugly person attitude,

funfact not everyone is a shallow ass.

this this and this

you butthurt op?

 

[kaz1]

OP's boyfriend left her for a prettier girl and now she all mad.

 

[talisman]

wow no being attractive doesnt mean you're not nice or smart jesus christ

and being not-attractive (lolugly) doesn't mean you are nice or funny

serious question op; are you ugly? because this 'guys don't care about a girls personality wah wah' is definitely an ugly person attitude,

funfact not everyone is a shallow ass.

hahaha i totally saw that question coming. i suppose this thread comes at the expense of giving off that vibe. i don't think it's my place to judge on my appearance. it's really yours but the most you'll see of me is through the cyber world

i suppose we all like to think that we're the nicest, friendliest and most caring person possible and that we're the most physically attractive and all that.

hey, i'm not calling/implying/insinuating that anyone's a shallow ass! that's why i started this thread, so guys could actually talk about who they really are. there are probably misconceptions on both sides.

 

[Shadowdude]

I think she was supposing stereotypes, to be fair.

Let's face it, more attractive women are a bit more bitchy... and why is this? Centuries of reinforcement. /movie reference

 

[talisman]

That is a very interesting question.

It really depends on whether the girl in question who is being courted falls into one of two categories. There are more than this, but given that this person is date-able, other categories are pushed out. So there are two categories, there is the "I want this relationship so I can get laid" or "I want this relationship because this person is genuinely awesome and I want to spend time with them".

Of course there are a few select girls who are really hot but also awesome people - and I call that "the win-win scenario".

touche

 

[pony_magician]

regardless that poll suggests that a girl can not be pretty and also nice or 'not so attractive' and also mean (me)

i know plenty of smart pretty girls and plenty of ugly dumb girls.

 

[Shadowdude]

regardless that poll suggests that a girl can not be pretty and also nice or 'not so attractive' and also mean (me)

i know plenty of smart pretty girls and plenty of ugly dumb girls.

introduce me? =P

 

[talisman]

regardless that poll suggests that a girl can not be pretty and also nice or 'not so attractive' and also mean (me)

i know plenty of smart pretty girls and plenty of ugly dumb girls.

if i added an attractive and intelligent girl to an option, there'd be no point to the poll

no look i totally understand that and if you look back at my first post, i stated just that