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Does she like me more than friends? (2 Viewers)

the_one_1

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SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

Because the girl I asked out lied about wanting to go out with me I want to ask out this new girl but am afraid she might think i'm desperate to get a girlfriend. So i'm not sure what to do.
Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brothers or sisters, how many kids I want to have) and also random questions (Can you go cross eyes, How have you been)

She looks at me a lot, just recently she looked at me more than usual. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

Just recently she asked me how I have been then after I asked what her mark was in a project. She asked what my mark was and she said "thats good. Nice job." She was also leaning back towards me (i'm sitting behind her). Her shoulders were open towards me. She also looked at me a bit. Before the lesson, she waited next to me while the teacher came to the class.

SIGNS WHICH CONFUSE ME

When walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like now (girl 2) was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

Also, just today I saw the girl I like now (girl 2) speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

So, do you think she really likes me back and is playing hard to get or is she losing interest in me?
Should I ask her out to the sports match we both like?
Do you think she might say yes about wanting to go to the match with me?
Do you think that she might think that it’s a date if I ask her to the sports match?
Do you think I should ask her out ASAP or should I wait for a while more?
 

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Mods please merge all this guy's threads.

If you even think that she likes you more than friends then ask her out.

STRAIGHT AWAY
 

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I'll let this slide for now but any more threads that you make will be deleted - you have made around 7 threads. Use them.
i hate the crap some people post to me for replies. I want truthful answers and help in how to get out of the problems I have.
 

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It's not a problem. How is a girl liking you a problem? I can't say for CERTAIN that she likes you but with these examples I think she's at least suggesting that she does. If you like this girl and want to go out with her then ASK HER OUT NOW.

This is my advice, it's the advice of most of the people that have responded to your messages and this is a truthful answer.
 

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I smell another sghuous alt.
 

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It's not a problem. How is a girl liking you a problem? I can't say for CERTAIN that she likes you but with these examples I think she's at least suggesting that she does. If you like this girl and want to go out with her then ASK HER OUT NOW.

This is my advice, it's the advice of most of the people that have responded to your messages and this is a truthful answer.
The only problem is I’m not 100% sure if the girl I like likes me back because of the incident with the girl I asked out and her lying.

I was going to invite her to a sports game, which is a sport, we both like but I had asked out a girl, she lied and I don’t want to look desperate. The other thing is the sports match is during our exam weeks (end of the first week) and I also don’t have her number. This is the only thing I’m wondering about.

If you can help me. How should I ask her out and explain that the match is the first weekend of exams and also try to get her phone number.
 

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You can never be 100% sure.

If I were you I wouldn't ask her to the sports game, ask her out somewhere else (anywhere where you can get to know her better, NO MOVIES!!!). lol. I'll go for either coffee, ice cream, or frozen yoghurt. Doesn't matter (however it is winter so do coffee haha).

If she says yes to you asking her out then grab her number then (if she says yes, say 'Let me get your number' (don't ask, but instead state what you want)) and bingo, you'll have it. Lead your conversations... don't ask her for permission for minor things (YES EMPHASIS ON MINOR THINGS (such as 'let's go here')), just tell her. If she doesn't want to then she'll say so

You have all the time in the world. Don't ask her out to something that is immediately before exams as you'll both be stressed and you might be rejected on the basis that it's too close to exams (if she's really studious).
 

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You can never be 100% sure.

If I were you I wouldn't ask her to the sports game, ask her out somewhere else (anywhere where you can get to know her better, NO MOVIES!!!). lol. I'll go for either coffee, ice cream, or frozen yoghurt. Doesn't matter (however it is winter so do coffee haha).

If she says yes to you asking her out then grab her number then (if she says yes, say 'Let me get your number' (don't ask, but instead state what you want)) and bingo, you'll have it. Lead your conversations... don't ask her for permission for minor things (YES EMPHASIS ON MINOR THINGS (such as 'let's go here')), just tell her. If she doesn't want to then she'll say so

You have all the time in the world. Don't ask her out to something that is immediately before exams as you'll both be stressed and you might be rejected on the basis that it's too close to exams (if she's really studious).
One problem, I don't know where else I can go with her other than to the movies or to the sports match. The one thing we have in common is we enjoy the same sport to watch, which is the sport I want to ask her to. During the match there are breaks where I can get to know her a little more.

So, what should I do. I will be going to the match anyway because people always say balance fun and study. I was thinking maybe I will ask her to the match then to study after with each other. So what do you think I should do?
 

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lol dont u have ur trails sometime soon?
that is what I mean about exams. But people always say balance fun and study. I was thinking maybe I will ask her to the match then to study after with each other. So what do you think I should do?
 

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that is what I mean about exams. But people always say balance fun and study. I was thinking maybe I will ask her to the match then to study after with each other. So what do you think I should do?
ask her out whats the worse that can happen
 

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ask her out whats the worse that can happen
She says no and I lose a good friend like all the girls i've liked and asked out.:cry:

Also its during trials, so if I ask her there is a bit of a risk of her saying no. I really want to invite her to this game though because I don't think she has watched the sport live and think she will really enjoy it.
 

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She says no and I lose a good friend like all the girls i've liked and asked out.:cry:

Also its during trials, so if I ask her there is a bit of a risk of her saying no. I really want to invite her to this game though because I don't think she has watched the sport live and think she will really enjoy it.
I have a feeling you will be sad if you get rejected . Trials isn't the best time to ask a girl out.... Wait till after trials. It will be better for both of you.
 

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I have a feeling you will be sad if you get rejected . Trials isn't the best time to ask a girl out.... Wait till after trials. It will be better for both of you.
but this is actually the first match the home team has a chance of winning
 

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You will only lose a good friend if you continue liking her after you've rejected her. Then it's awkward for you, and if it's awkward for you then it's awkward for her. And you won't end up talking. So if she says no (which is unlikely IMO) then stop liking her. Sorry.

Of course this awkwardness can be overcome if you're confident in yourself (in maintaining a standard friendship) but I'm getting a lot of self-doubting vibes from you.

From past experience: don't tell anyone that you like a person. They will find out sooner rather than later and if they don't like you it's super awkward

But anyway. Wait until after trails and then ask her out. Screw this sports game or whatever, the point of dating is to know the other person better. You can do it better over coffee/ drink/ even walking and sitting at a park bench.

With everyone there is always a risk of her saying no. There is NEVER a right opportunity. Like I've said before, if you don't ask her out you're probably not mature enough for a proper relationship. You also need to be confident in yourself within a relationship, clingyness is a turnoff for (most) girls.

You're not signing your life away. It's just dating. BF/GF stuff comes later. (and that may even be harder than asking her out on the initial date lol).
 
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